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Losing my virginity young
Okay so next month ill be turning 14 and ive been dating my boyfriend for about a week now and we talked and we want to have sex on my birthday. Hes 16.we have done a little foreplay like touching and such or “3rd base”. We both want to lose it to eachother but im worried. Am i too young? Im ready and i know hes the absolute right guy to do it with but im only going to be 14 and stuff. So should i have sex or no? And please give me advice on it.
I think you are rushing it and are definitely too young. As much as you think you are ready, at 14? You really are not. Are you ready for the possible consequences? Are you able to deal with them like an adult? No, you are 14, as mature as you might be, undoubtedly you are not ready to deal with such problems that will arise. You’ve only been going out for a week and you are already talking about intercourse. Quite frankly, I would wait. You will never regret waiting, but you will rushing it. You get your first only once, you might not hold much meaning to it, but it will be the one you remember.
The condom could break. That is the cause of our baby girl we are waiting for. But I see her as a blessing, not a consequence. Either way, you are still to young to be having sex. Wait until you are married, and are with the person you will be with forever. Please don’t lose your virginity at 14. There is still the chance of you getting pregnant, and do you think you would be able to care for a child with no job? Don’t rush sweetie. You want to make the right choice.
why not wait? im 19 and im a virgin and im actually really happy i am cause ik the guy i do it with is gonna b the guy like i wanna wait a year of being together to do it…. and ummmm youve only been together a week and guys at that age just wanna have sex hes probably just saying alll that stuff without meaning it to get in your pants…. i think you should wait i feel your gonna regret it in the future… and you may think hes the right guy but your sooooo young and how can you know if you havent been together long the right guy will wait how ever long i think thats why its a good reason to wait it really shows hes there for you and not the sex it shows hes willing to wait and by you just giving it up kinda means nothing…..
14 is a bit young. And don’t rush into if, especially if you’re not ready. And you’ve only been going out for a week, that’s not very long. I wished I waited but I didn’t, I wasn’t ready. There’s a possibility of the condom breaking and unless you can afford to support a baby, you shouldn’t take the risk. If you’re unsure about it, you’re probably not ready.
14 is a bit young… i lost mine at the age of 16… and personally i wish i can get it back.. you might think he’s the right person for right now, but he might not be cause i know i thought the same thing when i was dating him but now that i look back i think the total opposite… if i were you i would wait.. waiting is so much better cause you have the chance of getting pregnant and you’re only 14 you have you’re whole life ahead of you… but i wish you the best of luck on whatever you decide to so
Not to mention all teenagers think they’re ready. Its just hormones.
Okay if you’re debating about whether you should do it or not, I don’t think you’re ready. Let me ask you this, are you on birth control? You should make sure you protect yourself so you don’t get pregnant. You both should also get tested for STDs just in case. Just to let you know, your first time is not going to be that great. Trust me. For your boyfriend it will be awesome, but for you on the other hand, it will totally suck hahaha. It’s not what it’s all cracked up to be until you two gain more experience.
Exactly at 14 and only going out for a week. A week is meaningless in a relationship its nothing. I waited over three years before my boyfriend and I finally did, obviously not everyone’s willing to wait THAT long but this way i know for sure he’s the one. Riri you should definitely wait you’re just rushing into this.
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