Ladies? Assistance?

We dated for two years, loved every minute of it. she left me randomly saying she doesnt love me anymore. She started dating another guy about two days later. I still try to get her back, at first she was telling me to leave her alone, and get a life. then she was breaking down and telling me she misses me and she loves me so much, and she always thinks about me. but she still wont date me again. She went back to the ‘I dont love you’ and threatened me with her new boyfriend. THEN she said she does miss me, and love me, but its only sometimes. not all the time. So, ladies, does she miss me? does she still love me? and should I kepp trying to get her back?

Answer #1

first of all.. if she cared she wouldn’t of went and started dating another guy two laters you guys broke up.. 2 years is a long time and I doubt someone can get over someone they “love & care for” in 2 days.. She’s the one who left you for the other guy and theres no denying that… and I honestly think the only time she misses you is when her and her new boy start figthing or some thing goes wrong. Obviously she’s going to regret leaving you so she’s going to want you back.. But if you take her back thats not fair for you! she left you (randomly) for another guy pretty much.. do you think you need someone like that? She’s just playing with your head by telling you she misses you and stuff and then outta no where she changes her mind.. if she really missed you SHE would be the ONE trying to get you back.. I think you should leave things alone for a bit, and if she REALLY does want you back she’ll do what ever se can to get you back. By you leaving things alone she’ll start to think that your losing feelings for ger so she’ll probably start to realize what she did and how she messed up by leaving someone who truley cares for her.. And like that quote says “What ever is meant to be for you, will always find its way” and you can’t force some things thats not meant to be. just let things go for a little bit and concentrate on your self for a few days or some thing and see if she really comes back.. and if she really does want you back like I said before she will do ANYTHING to prove it to you.

Answer #2

sorry, but if she “started dating” a guy 2 days after you broke up… she was really dating him at the same time with you. she was cheating on you but didn’t admit it. she is not worth it. this happened to my boyfriend with the girl he was dating before me. she had some mental issues. move on and find a better girl

Answer #3

My honest opinion is to try and let go and move on. I cant tell you whether deep down she loves you or not, only she can. I think she wants to have her cake and eat it. By what you’ve said I dont think she loves you enough to want to be with you, if she did then she would have broken up with her current boyfriend by now, but she hasnt. So deep down I think you already know that she isnt worth waiting for. I know its hard to let go, but to be honest I think thats what you need to do, I wish you all the best. Good luck

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