Problems with this guy in my class

ok well I have this guy in my BCIS class. and his names kyle and hes in 11th gradee. and im in 9th,and I really liked him and yeah I still do but a couple weeks after school started we started talking to each other over myspace and he asked me if he could take me home everydayy- and I was like yea. and we talked about being a “couple”. so we did that for about 4 days and all we did was makeout but we spent so much time together during those 4 days. and he was like “ iREALY like you and I want us to be together for along time” so I was like ok. and a couple days ago we were talking about my parents likeing him and he thought they didnt because they found him on top of me a few days before. and so he told me if it didnt work out between us- he had another girl to go to that was in 11th grade and her parents loved him and I was like ok? and I got realy madd. so he was like” ok shelbie I like you more tan her and I havent done anything with her” and I was still mad so he finally said” if your going to be mad at me I just think we should be really close friends and I dont want that because I REALLY likeyou” and im like” no I dont want to be your friend at all” so I still like him and hes been asking to be really close friends still and I dont want to be but I do because I still have feelings for him. but my question is do you think I over reacted to him having a “back up girl”. and should I be friends with him or just try and forget about him

Answer #1

forget bot him hes just a user

Answer #2

You didn’t over react at all, it’s inconsiderate and he sounds like a manwh*re. I say move on because you can do MUCH better.

Answer #3

so we did that for about 4 days and all we did was makeout but we spent so much time together during those 4 days.>>Not a healthy start to a relatiopnship. Seems he feels more lust for you than anything. I dont believe he truly likes you in the right way. You are young, and very naive, and he can say that he “really” likes you, but if he did, first off he wouldnt be constantly making out with you, and secondly, he wouldnt have another girl. Hes just messing with your head. Hes playing on your emotions, and your naiveness. Hes showing you right off the bat how he is, and if you keep allowing him to be like he is towards you, hes going to keep doing it. Find someone who respects you, because this guy does not. He sounds like a player.

Answer #4

im NOT blackk nccoolguy

Answer #5

hah rightt.

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