kinda long, about my boyfriend, please read it!

Cheating is not something that is forgiven easily. Obviously he brings it up because he does not want you to forget how much you hurt him. It is quite possible that he does like the girl he texted. Yes it is true, while many of us in a relationship are monogamous, that does not mean we are not attracted to others. It is the love and respect for others that keeps us monogamous. The fact that you cheated on him gives him reason not to trust you. You made a mistake, one that has consequences. No matter how long you are together, that cannot be erased from the history of your relationship. You see, the cheating also has consequences on your end, now you are wondering if he wants to cheat on or leave you.

Sounds like you need to sit down with him and have a heart to heart. Because all that any off us can offer you on this site is speculation. If the two of you really love each other, you may be able to get past this. However, be realistic. There are many that cannot. It takes two to keep a relationship together… not one or three if you get my drift. I’m not trying to be cruel or insensitive, just giving you my honest thoughts. Good luck.

were over that-

Apparently not… his behavior suggests otherwise.

If you cheated on him, then he’ll never really trust you again; and he WILL continue to hold it over your head. You’re both better off just ending the relationship…

aww, try to talk to you boyfriend it cold have been just drunk talk.. I have had several boyfriend break up with me when they were drunk and didn;t even remember it when they were sober but most likely he is still upset about you cheating and he is using texting this other chick to get under your skin and make you jealous and it sounds like his plan worked. So I would just chill out and wait for him to call you or just send a random innocent text asking what he is doing.