Does he feel guilty about owing me money or want to go out?

Me and my boyfriend of two years just broke up about a month ago. Here’s how it happened in a nutshell: We were inseperable for over a year and a half. Then we got into a huge fight and decided to only see each other once a week for a while during the summer. During that time he got a summer only job about 2 hours away. We did pretty good for a month then he called me one night and said we had “grown apart” but he said he wanted to still be close and stay in each others lives. I figured he was just saying that to avoid drama. Well he actually did keep in contact only 1 week after that night, wishing me a happy birthday and hoping I had a good time on my family vacation. Here’s the tricky part. About 2 weeks after he kept in contact with me as friends, he asked to borrow $150 for his car repairs since he had spent his money on college tuition. I lent him the money and he has been very good about paying me back in payments ( I never have to chase him for it) Ok, my question is he asked if I wanted to go out to ice cream and talk. Do you think he just feels guilty that he owes me $60 or do you think he might want to get back together?

Answer #1

Dear cutiepatootie, It’s time to face the facts. This guy is over you…it’s time for you to move on and it looks like he has. It was a mistake to lend him the money but count yourself lucky that he is paying it back. Once he is finished paying cut the ties with him. There is nothing worse than still wanted a relationship when the other doesn’t and it’s clear he doesn’t. He all but hit you over the head to tell you this. If you both couldn’t manage to work through a fight then you both could not manage life together. See this as a good thing and a learning experience. The worst thing is to keep in contact as friends this is unhealthy for both of you. Get the rest of your money and move on. Sue…good luck

Answer #2

Ok I agree with missv. Guys don’t “talk” for no reason. I mean he wasn’t asking you out for ice cream and a bit of a gossip. If guys ask you out specifically to “talk” that usually means theres something quite important to talk about. So this could maybe be that he wants to get back with you however it could also be him asking you advice on his life and stuff but usually if it was this they would just talk to you on the phone. Obviously suspect and be prepared for the worst but I think it is most likely that he wants to talk to you about yours and his relationship. Just go along and see what happens just don’t suspect anything. Hope this helped, let me know how things go x

Answer #3

I totally agree with sue90!

Feels guilty that he owes you $60.00? He owed you a total of &150.00, remember? Why should he feel guilty now? You should realize that your relationship wasnt that strong for it to end so abruptly, especially after being together for so long. I feel that he only wants to talk with you, because he probably wants to pay you off, and then tell you that he thinks its best to just cut all ties! I really think he is over you, but just staying in contact right now, because hes in your debt. Just be prepared for the worst!

Answer #4

i think that hes thinking of getting back with you i also think hes noticed what a good friend you are for being there when he needs your help plus he knows how you were as his girl the knowing that you guys were a t one point were very close maybe he wants you back as his girl again cuz when a guy says lets talk that means hes want ting to share some feelings or maybe he has an idea about how to work things out good luck …missv

Answer #5

be prepared, he may want to kiss you off for good. Good luck Gino

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