Do you think I'm a little insane if I'm really obsessed with someone?

Answer #1

Obsessed how? If by obsessed you mean following them around, following their every move, obsessively thinking about them, then you may have a problem. But if it’s just a person you think about a lot, or look forward to seeing then there’s no problem there.

Answer #2

depends. are you stalking them? if so thats creepy…and wrong… but if not, then your fine. as long as you dont push it further then what that person is comfortable with

Answer #3

Nah. I was obsessed with some guy when I was in Grade 9. Like find out where his classes are, watch him eat his lunch, pretend I’m taking photos of my friends and actually take photos of him-obsessed. It was extremely creepy. But if you’re not that bad then I don’t think you’re insane :P

Answer #4

You can be obsessed, but act chill. Not being clingy will gain you points.

Answer #5

I’m not sure if you’re insane; I guess it would have to depend on what exactly you’re doing. If you’re following someone around and are generally doing things that are creepy, then yeah, it’s possible.

Having a crush is okay and thinking about them is okay too, but as an adult there is a fine line between what is acceptable and what isn’t. If you like the guy, just go talk to him. If he isn’t interested – drop it.

If you’re just happy to see the person, miss them when you aren’t with them, and can’t wait to see them again – it’s all good. We all have people that we love to speak to and see. As long as it isn’t something unhealthy, you have nothing to worry about.

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