im too ugly

Im a 15 year old male and im not very attractive. Im fat and my face is ugly, so should I give up and forget about ever getting a girlfriend or a date? I seriously doubt a women have interest in me cause the way I look

Answer #1

hey… i feel the same way too…. i so know how you feel…. people always try to shed light and add positive comments like don’t be to hard on yourself” or “your not that ugly”. But they do not understand how painful it is to hear.. I’m extremely ugly myself, every student i met has made a negative comment on my face, even my mother has, by accident. When it comes to jokes, i’m always the subject. What you need to remember is, that with a good personality, you can draw attention away from the fact that you may be ugly, just have a good personality, and try to keep away from anything that relates to a persons physical appearance. Remember you are a valuable person, and being attractive won’t get you a successful career. There will always be a person who will find you attractive

Answer #2

Im a 14 yr old boy bruv .. im not good looking either .. but I act cool about myself and people love being with me cus im a funny person to b with … also if you got a great Personality then act like youself and be cool about it so the girl can see past your face and look at your beautiful heart.

Answer #3

omg dont listen to what anybody says your only a jerk if you act like a jerk I meant this really awesome guy who was overwight and not tthat attractive but he was really nice but anyways the point it if the girls are just btches to you then thats their problem but one day you will find that one lucky girl just count on that

Answer #4

hey,take some advice,your only 15 and your body will change as well as your face,exersizing won’t hurt tho,YOU DO NOT WANT TO END UP LIKE ME,I am 36 years old and have’nt had a serious girlfriend my whole life,only elementary school kiddy stuff that can’t even be considered a relationship,I finally completely and truly gave up about 8 years ago,I’m certain I will die young from the bitter depression this has caused me,my life is ruined,don’t let this happen to you,you still have lots of time to improve upon yourself,having faith that you can do it will go a long way,all the best to you.

Answer #5

dude, why don’t you try exercising? don’t eat fatty stuff b/c it causes health problems. and don’t loose weight for someone but only yourself. and if you are that ugly you can always study, have a good job, and the hve a surgery.:)

Answer #6

Hey I feel the same way. I feel like ill NEVER get a boyfriend with my looks. Sorry if a ugly 13 year old is answering this.;[

Answer #7

Well im a 15 year old female and i dated assholes that are like strong bla bla bla Babii boii just stay nice but… Dont act GAY NICE lol its weird t say but just wait cas theres is always one gurl out there that will love you lol yu jut dont see her yet

Answer #8

you idiot well… dont give up your 15!!! and yeah your self confidents SUX!!!

Answer #9

Don’t be so hard on yourself. I think I look like total -censored- and I still get a couple of nice comments every now and then. Not to mention a lovely girlfriend who loves me very much =) What I’m trying to say is, be yourself. Don’t put yourself down. Beauty can be on the outside as well as in the inside. I know that sounds like crap advice but trust me - Some how, some way, there is always someone for everybody. Including you. And once you find that person, you will be very happy. Because someone will have discovered your Inner AND Outer beauty =)

Answer #10

dont you see TV?

sometimes is true…

look…

is you dont got confidence and express yourself.. at the women they will think you afraid at talking to her…

andgirls dont like that…

they will think that you are not interest it…

and I am a guy!

and I ain’t ugly and I ain’t cute

I am just what my girl wants…

Answer #11

keep looking there is more chances to come and please stop saying ur ugly and fat cause u arnt ur hurting ur self when u say that

Answer #12

you need to have faith in your self your douting yourself so have some confidince about your self holla at gurls

Answer #13

hey I feel exactly the same, im a 14 year old girl whose seriously ugly, and its caused me great depression and I’ve got “UGLY” carved so deeply into my arm that it’ll stay with me forever. Honestly dont be too hard on yourself and dont do what I did because I lost all my frends because im “no fun” any more! remember to NEVER EVER give up, because giving up is the easy way out, and you dont want people sayin that you couldnt cope, do you? good luck! and ILY

Answer #14

Hey, I just want to say sorry that you feel this way. No one should be made to feel ugly or fat. I had the exact same problem, so I know how you feel. But the truth is, it was everyone else who had a problem with me. As long as your happy, that’s what matters the most. And it’s not true what you said about not getting a girlfriend. As long as your personality is good, that’s what really counts. Most people are just too blind to see that. I’m not one of those people. If you ever need a friend to talk to, just message me. Trust me, things will get better. =o)

Answer #15

yeah it is the same guy that pays attention more to his son and forgets ‘bout me…. Yeah, so my ex boyfriend called me and didn’t know what to do??? My fingers are itching to call him but I start to think of my boyfriend and want to make things work…I love my boyfriend and couldn’t hurt him like that… I mean having sex with my ex would kill/hurt him…. I’ve been there done that and it wasn’t a goods feeling….. I will give it time… I believe that me and my boyfriend will work things out…. AT LEAST LETS HOPE SO!!! Thanks buddy…. and keep up with that diet… don’t give up cuz I tell you… A man with a solid body looks yummy…. My bf is a personal trainer and works out really hard… He has a beautiful body and on the weekends eats straight crap. (junk food) but I tell yah… as soon as Monday hits…. He is working out…. He does it all week and never gains weight… Believe me!!!! DONT BE A QUITTER!!! good luck and dont cheat on your eating habits…

Answer #16

Hey buddy, lets start with you’ve got LOW SELF-ESTEEM!!!! You gotta think differently then you do… Like one of the girls said… Get up and work out… Trust me It’ll work for you… Buy a couple of new outfits and go out and have fun… Don’t listen to that F$#%!ng idiot “ncllnn”… these guts are losers that make man look BAD!!!! Anywayz, in no time you let me know how it went with the first girl that catched your eye… You never know, this could be for the better… what do you say????

Answer #17

No dude, Don’t Give up you still Have Time you aren’t old at all I think the only thing girls wouldn’t Like about u is ur lack of self confidence

Answer #18

THERE IS A KID AT MY SCHOOL WHO IS FAT AND LOOSER. HE CHASES ME AROUND AND TELLS ME HE WILL STALK ME FOREVER. THE POINT IS THE REASON I AM NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM IS NOT BECAUSE HE IS FAT IT IS BECAUSE HE IS MEAN AND ANNOYING. DON’T GIVE UP JUST BE THE NICE GUY THAT HELPS GIRLS OUT WITH THERE HOMEWORK AND STUFF DON’T PUSH IT YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF U.

Answer #19

thats way too harsh….you are being too critical of urself…no one is a beautyking/queen…you Just have to work with what you have…and whenever you think you have it worse than everyone else(remember that there is someone who has it alot worse than you)be thankful your arms and legs and sight are intact..just admagine being in a wheelchair…..if you wanna feel better about urself diet(eat healthy)exercise regulary,wear nice clothes and do sometyhing nice with your hair..u will not only look better but you will feel much better!good luck and remember to always appreciate what you have b/c it could be alot worse

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