Im 17 and there is a chance im preg. and my boyfriend is 23

Im 17 year old and my period is late. Im taking a test 2marrow morning and see if I am. If I may im 17 and my husband to be is 23 I want to know if he can get into troble because ill be 17 and a half in dec. of this year. Will they consider me an adult at 17 1/2 or what…Im not getting an abortion…I want this child with all my heart but im scared about my boyfriend go to jail. I could never life without him (I know what you are all thinking all girls say that but he is in love with me and im with him. He is SO supportive in whatever I do…but im scared)

PLEASE HELP!!!

Answer #1

it’s only a six year difference guys. sure they’re young but its still not that bad considering people are going to jail for consensual sex with 13 year olds when they’re 25. Mandycats if you honestly believe there is no such thing as true love then you are mistaken. With an attitude like that you probably won’t experience it if it does come around to you because you’ll be so skeptical of it. I will admitt though, it doesn’t happen to everyone, but everyone does get a chance at true love. unfortunatly a lot of people miss their chance. okay so first coarse of action would be to find out if your actually pregnant. no need to worry if you aren’t. If by some chance you are, then do some research on the internet for legal rights in your country, province/state, and maybe city if you live in a city where they have been changed a little. you probably will have to take it to court and explain your situation, and it’s going to cost a lot of money for the court and the actual birth. if you have an educated parent you may ask them if they know about home birth, because it would be a lot cheaper and more traditional. If you’re not pregnant I highly suggest waiting until your above 18 before risking pregnancies. Thats the main reason birth control was invented. wrapping his penis in plastic wrap isn’t effective. Spend a little money and buy good quality condoms, maybe start birth control pills. it’ll save you a lot of money in the end. Good Luck

-D

Answer #2

lol, no just because your half way to your 18th birthday the law will not consider you 18 until the day of your birthday.

An the only way he can go to jail is if your parents call the cops on him for rape.

So hope to god your parents love him.

Answer #3

Wait a minute? Didnt you say that this is your husband? Well someone please correct me if im wrong but, to be married at 17 that would mean that both sets of parents would have had to consented to the marriage, and had it performed legally in the presence of a judge and then had a legal marriage license drawn up. In this case there is no possible way that he could get in trouble for rape or anything like that, because he is your legal husband. Unless you are both just so close that you call eachother husband and wifey :) in this case it could go two ways, 1st your parents flip and they call the cops and have him arrested for stag. rape…OR, depending on what state you live in it is legal from the age of 17 to the age of 23- my mother went through the same thing when she had me she was 17 and he was 24, but this was back in the day before the law. I suggest sitting down and first figuring out if you actually are pregnant, then talk with the family, and if worse comes to worse put “unknown father” on the birth Cert and go back and change it later on down the road. Hope this helped a little, best of luck!

Answer #4

your boyfriend is going to be charged with rape, does your parents know about this do they aprove of you sleeping with a 23 year old…first you need to think about how your gonna pay for the birth of this child which will be over 8,000 dollars thats with insurance. second you need to think about your education… are you still in high school? third you need to think of the child…do you want your child to grow up knowing daddy went to jail because he raped his mother…even tho he really didnt. Firs of all I used to think like you…the whole he loves me I love him and I always will, but fairy tales are for Disney movies, this is reality if you want a good example watch secret life of an american teenager. I dont personally like the thought of abortion but you might have to decide that if you feel hes going to jail…im sorry I dont want to hurt your feelings but I’ve been down that road before its not a pretty one…if he wants this baby then the both of you need to go down to a court house before your parents find out and explain to a higher athority that the sex was consensual and you both love each other, you can also legally become your own guardian through the courts… please I advise you to take one of these actions.

Answer #5

The only way he would get thrown in jail is if someone presses charges against him. Being you or your parents. (that depends on what state you live in) First things first, you need to find out if your pregnant or not. If you are hopefully your parents wouldnt do such a thing as to throw the babies daddy in jail for having sex with their under age daughter that she wanted just as much as he did. He isnt to blame no more than you are. You knew what you were doing when you layed down and gave yourself to him, just like at 23 years old he knew what he was doing when he had sex with a 17 yr old.
Good Luck!

Answer #6

First off, you should find out if you’re really pregnant or not. Secondly, you should know much, much better then to be sleeping with someone that old. Of course he’s supportive, you’re giving him the p*ssy. It doesn’t take a genius to figure that.

He won’t be charged with rape unless someone presses charges on him (I.e YOU, or your parents.) If your parents are cool with this crusty behavior then shame on them, but it leaves him in the clear. Seriously though, you need to grow a brain and some self-respect.

Answer #7

You should just put the father as unknown on the birth certificate and change it when your an legal adult

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