I really need help.

DANG! DONT WORRY I HAVE TWO OLDER BROTHERS PLUS LIKE ONE THOUSAND BOY COUSINS AND THEY WONT LET ME DATE EITHER. I SEE A GUY I LIKE IF I START TALKIN TO HIM INSTANTLY MY BROTHER OR COUSIN WILL MESS IT UP FOR ME. THERES NO WAY you CAN GET AROUND IT IM 14 AND IT JUST WONT WORK. IT REALLY DOES STUCK BEING THE ONLY GIRL IN MY SMALL FAMILY AND THOUSANDS OF BOY COUSINS IN MY LARGE FAMILY. SORRY I COULDNT HELP.

u have to get closer to them or “1”of them ,then talk to him about your opinion , know what his opinion and tell him that what they are doing is wrong .(if you r a straight person , wont do bad thing , you care about your reputation and can be trusted so you r right ).Try try until they understand u, dont stop.They are your brothers you cant do anything else. Forget about doing things they dont like because you will regret it later.

Apparently they are trying to keep you safe and even though they have their best intentions it’s driving you crazy.

Did your parents put the boys in charge? If so, they may be taking their role to the extreme.

Try talking to the one you think is most reasonable and letting him know how you feel. If that doesn’t work, then perhaps you should just try and tough it out for the month until your parents get back (or can you talk to your parents about this?)