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I really hate to say it... but

really miss my ex girlfriend. Me and my good friend were talking about girls the other night, and he mentioned how he really wishes he had an awesome relationship like he had with one of his exgirlfriends. We both talked about how awesome it was instead of going out all the time, that we could chill and still have an awesome time.

Things went sour with her parents cause they didn’t like that I was 19 and she was 17, so they told her to break up with me, or that they would break us up. She wouldn’t break us up so her parents broke us up. Me and my ex talk on facebook frequently, but we haven’t talked on the phone but one time since May, when we were broken up. I’m thinking about heading home sometime next month from college to visit my family and possibly set up a time to hang out with her.

We dated for 15 months, and I was probably a week shy of celebrating her birthday with her. We never had sex, and her parents always accused us of having sex. Her mom even told her that she would buy her birth control if she wanted her to. I really miss just having the fun times we had, and want to fix things with her parents, but I know they won’t want me back dating her. What should I do?

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You need to go hang out with her and see if she still feels the same way about you, becos she could have possibly moved on by now. Only if you want to be with her, not just to fill the loneliness you feel.

Talk to her about it, maybe her parents will feel differently, they shouldnt have broken you up in the 1st place, its only 2 years older. But why would her mother offer her birth control pills if they didnt approve of you 2 having sex? even tho you didnt and they thought you were.

Maybe sit down, both of you, if you come to the agreement you cant to be together again, and speak to her parents face to face like adults and they may change their mind.

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