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I need help about my boyfriend

I found out last night my boyfriend has more problems than I knew of. He doesn’t have the money to be bringing people everywhere or to be seeing me all the time but yet he does. And he doesn’t have many belongings and he’s sick of living the way he is living. I mean I have a room upstairs in my garage and a room in my basement but im not sure how to persuade him to get away from the life style he has now and start over.. What do I do?

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Answer #1

The best thing you can do is be supportive but let him make his way. You can’t change him. He has to want to change. He has the power to get a job, to change his lifestyle, to find solutions to his problems. By trying to fix everything for him, your amputating his free will and not letting him do stuff on his own. It’s ok to want to help someone but you have to learn to let them help themselves too.

Answer #2

You leave him and let him sort out his own issues. You don’t need to be dealing with this kind of crap at 15.

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