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Am I being selfish for not wanting to move?

my mom met a really great guy and i really like him. they want to move in together and i am perfectly ok with that except for moving schools. my mom would have to drive me to school and hour everyday. she really doesnt want to drive me. i am in highschool and i love it where i am. am i being selfish for not wanting to move or should i have an open mind about it?

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Not wanting to move is not at all a selfish thought. Changing schools can be a rough course, though the uneven ground eventually smoothes out with time. Try talking to your mom. Explain to her that you want her to be happy, and that you like the guy she wants to move in with. Tell her that you understand driving an hour to school everyday is a tough inconvenience, but also explain you’re reasons for disagreement on moving away. Let your mom know that you love your school, enjoy your teachers, and don’t want to leave your friends behind. Ask if perhaps there’s something the both of you could work out. (“Mom, I am willing to work really hard if you let me stay. Straight A’s will be no problem at all!”) Make sure you stay calm and patient. Never lose your temper, or you could lose all hope of staying. Just think positively 24/7. Good Luck! I hope this helped. : ]

~Rachel

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