How do I choose between my parents?

I have to chose between my mom and dad…Ive had to make this choice before and it backfired…I dont know what to do…My mom wants me to move back to california with her and her new husband and there new baby…and bring my little sister with me…there going to get a big house so all of us can live together..she even wants to give all of us are own rooms…right now I live with my dad..he yells and screams and lots of other things…over nothing really…he just makes reasons to yell to make himself feel better…he barely takes care of me and my little sister..he’s 2 months behind on rent…and he acts like he’d be better off without us…and he probably would be…but I have been threw so much its hard for me to make another choice along with all my other ones…Ive messed up so much by making my own choices..and I dont want to do it again..so please help me by giving me your idea on what I need to do for me and my little sisters sake…thank you all…and please hurry because I have to make a choice within 2 weeks or my mom will move into a smaller place for just her and her new husband and the baby…

~~Heavenly~~

Answer #1

u should go live with your mom. well if u think u feel more conftable with ur dad or mom, go with whoever ur conftable with… good luck

Answer #2

tell ur mum to buy the big house and go live with her, but first try and talk a lil wit ur dad. try and get him to let out wat he’s feeling. stress is a lot worse wen u dont release it. try and get ur dad to tell u wats wrong. talk to him wen he’s calm and let him know that u want to help him. also reassure him that u’ll love him for who he is, for example wen u finish talkin wit him always tell him “love u dad” remember it could be the last thing u’d say to him… God forbid anythin bad happens to him. well to wrap it up, go live wit ur mum but help ur dad first. no matter wat u’ll always be his first and little girl, even if ur 56 he’ll still love u like u wer a month old. take care now and good luck nicksy xoxoxox

Answer #3

well choose a place that you would be better off. and it sounds like that would be with your mom. but on the other hand maybe your dad is the way he is cause there is a chance he could loose you, and he is behind on rent and stuff so he might just be stressing out on a lot of stuff. so i think if you are old enough you should try and get a job and help out. but then again who would watch you siblings. but i think you should just find out where you will behappier and not as stressed thats the best way to go. i hope i helped out a lil concidering i didnt really give good advice i was just helping you see the sides. :)

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