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I can't move on

I’m trying to move on from a guy who was a complete jerk. We were friends but he decided to drop me because I wouldn’t say something ‘sexy’ to him. Like he would ask me questions like what I would do if he was in the shower. After I didn’t give him a good answer, he said that he didn’t want to be my friend. I’m pretty sure that he only wanted me for sex because he wouldn’t ever hang out with me but instead kept asking those questions. Anyway its been over two months since I’ve seen him in person and its been a little over a month since I last spoke with him. Now I don’t know why I haven’t been able to completely erase him from my mind. I was fine up until now and I’m starting to like feel obsessive over it. Its really scary because now I’m sexually fantasying him. I wasn’t like that at the time but it feels like the less I talk to him the more I like him? Is it sad that I’m unable to move on? Is there anything I can do? How long will it take?

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Answer #1

OMG!! he’s a big jerk look just think that he really was never your a friend is when you hang out with them and he only wanted you for sex he never even respected you b/c if he did he would’ve never even talk to you like that. think that there is soo much more better guys that are waiting for you and stop losing time thinking about him. those thoughts you have might be because you are physically attratted to him. and the more impossible he is is what make you want him more no its not at the time you dident notice he only wanted you for sex and thats why you like him now as a boyfriend but it might that your only used to thinking about him. when you start thinking about him think how bad he made you feel and stuff like that & focus on someone else.

Answer #2

You clearly have ‘rejection issues’ if you’re hung up on a guy who treats you that way.

Answer #3

What a damn loser. Move on you deserve better, and plus you werent even together.

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