How to get over the girl's at work?

Ok so I started this new job and I’m a hostess at a resturant and the girl’s there are really mean and I do not know why. what is a good way to cope with this kind of behavior? I really do not want this to be the reason I dread getting up in the morning to go to work. what should I do?

Answer #1

Unfortunately, you have to grin and bear it. It is difficult but you can’t force them to be nice to you. Just be helpful and help them out when you can. Don’t complain unless they’re bullying you. But time will usually help. If they see that you’re sticking around they may warm up to you. Everyone has a nice side but sometimes you just have to wait to see it.

Answer #2

Anytime you work in a restraunt as a host/hostess, the servers will always be irritable. I’ve worked as a hostess AND a server so I know how you feel :( Servers are cranky people, we cant help it. Ha. Just keep doing what your doing and focuson your work. Dont worry about the other girls because most likely they are just unhappy about their tables. If it becomes a bigger problem or doesnt start getting better, stand up for yourself! Talk to the girls (with respect because even though they are the ones being mean, they are still people and they will just be meaner if you get an “attitude”) or if that doesnt work, then talk to management. It will get better with time though, just keep up your smile and show them your there for a reason.

Best wishes!

Answer #3

aaawww!!! poor thing! let those beyotches stay fake in the end, karma will hit them in the behind. besides, your new, they are prob testing you or something b/c they prob think they are something since they been there before u… meanwhile, find friends there @ work and stay you dont let those girls get to you!!! ;D hope I helped.

Answer #4

They probubley hate there job.It is not focused at you.

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