How to deal with my travelling boyfriend?

My boyfriend is a serious hockey player. Because of this, he’s on the road an in different places A LOT. We’re only 15 but have been going out for about a year and probably will be together for a long time. Right now hockey meetings and tryouts are starting to pop up. He’s doing a the fall session for one of his hockey teams, and I’m worried. In the fall I do feild hockey on my school team, AND soccer but it’s only rec. With his hockey added to that, I’m afraid I won’t get as much of him as I need and our relationship may suffer. And it’s not just sports, of course we also are busy with school, friends, and family. I would never tell him to cut out hockey bcos it’s the love of his life. I still wanna play my sports too, but hockey is something he’s so passionate about, I would never want to take it away from him. Another thing is that at events at school everyones there having a great time and with the person they like or their boyfriend or girlfriend when mine has to miss a lot because of hockey or meetings or fundraisers so I’m by myself for a lot. In winter hockey is in full swing, but that’s when my birthday and holidays are. I hate the thought of mr having him there for that. Ik the solution is not breaking up or leaving him. Hockey just ended in the beginning of march and I was relived. I didn’t expect to have to worry abt it this soon. What do I do to deal with this?

Answer #1

Talk to him about it. Tell him he needs to try and find a way to spend more time with you. Sacrifies will have to be made by one or both or you. If you find this won’t work, then you may just have to deal with the alone time. I know it’s hard, but that’s life.

Answer #2

give him an ultimadim is that how you spell it? tell him to pick you or traveling or to figure out how to take you with him its hard but that s the way life is HARD

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