How do I stay a virgin?

Im 18 years old and my boyfriend is almost 19!! We been 2 getherr for a while now! But his a paster (yes already lol) and he believe and sex after your married and im support him all the way!! But we play around and I really want him and same for him! But how do we make it work out the rite way! We see each other at school and only on saturdays and sundays but only at church! And because we only spend that time 2 gether we miss each other!! So we mess around! Like kiss on each other etc… Wht should I do!! I don’t want 2 give up!!

Answer #1

I was going to delete chips1914’s comment to you as overly rude, but after reading your post and attending to my resultant headache, I’m reluctantly forced to agree. I’ve read it twice now and only have the vaguest notion of what you’re talking about. By 18 years of age, your ability to communicate and express yourself should be MUCH further along than it is, and a grasp of writing as… rudimentary as yours is only going to hurt you in all future relationships, personal and professional.

So my advice to your problem is to stop worrying so much about men and sex and start paying closer attention to your own personal development. You’re an adult now, and it’s time to start behaving – and talking – accordingly. Work on yourself, THEN worry about relationships.

Answer #2

I think I know what you’re getting at. You want to stay a virgin but because you hardly see your boyfriend, you find yourself wanting him more and more? My advice is to wait. You’re obviously legally allowed to have sex but it’s not such a massive deal. People think sex is important in a relationship but I know a couple who have been dating for over a year now without sex at all and they’re really happy. Also, it’s your boyfriend’s decision to wait until after marriage. So I’d say continue with what you’re doing. You can try kissing to foreplay without actually having sexual intercourse. You’ll still be a virgin.

Answer #3

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