well... I have been without a man for nearly a year and really want to keep it this way but I am starting to get so tempted to go find somebody to at least just ... you know... spend the night with... but I feel like a virgin again and really want it to be nice with whoever I do decide to get with... it just kinda sux with it being the holidays I guess and plus I'm anorexic so all the "lets eat all day" holidays are hard for me and of course any kinda emotional problem is not good for my disorder so... how can I not be lonely? how can I not think about sex? and how the heck do I make it through xmas and new years alone with all these sex thoughts on my mind? help me here advisors! motivate me please!
There are many different levels to the "want" action.
You WANT to stay single. You WANT to have sex. You WANT this... You WANT that...
All wants are also backed by will. Will you do what you want? Will you do what you don't want?
If you WANT to stay single then you WILL.
However, maybe you should just seek out a one-night-stand and get it out of your system.
