How do I open my moms eyes?

Well my mom moved her boyfriend in quickly and he has been living here for a while and he is very nice he cleans cooks and is very good wit my daughter my brothers grandfather but it seems to me he hates to work he’s been having excuses and excuses why he can’t work here there or just excuses oh my parole or they told me to go tomorrow you know its obvious to me he is a piece of crap dude I just don’t wanna hurt my moms feelings also he smokes weed of whose money my moms she pays his cell bill I’m tired of him taking advantage of her I need to put an end to this any suggestions…

Answer #1

I totally understand where you are coming from, and I think that he is doing wrong. It is a good thing though that he is nice and cleans up after people, maybe he thinks that since he DONT have a job, that if he cleans and stuff that, thats the way to pay ya’ll back or something. Keep in mind, even if he does stop smoking weed, he won’t have a job still for a month or so. Just talk to your mom and let her know that you are seeing something a little wrong, and maybe she needs to talk to him. Just don’t make her feel like she made a wrong decision by getting with him.

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Answer #2

You cannot change your mom’s feelings. Just be there when she falls apart. Hopefully it will be soon …

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