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How do I just talk it out, not fight it out?

One of my friends is talking about my best friend. It really gets me mad. So yesterday she started again, and I bxtched at her face. I dont even want to see her at all, even though I met her first before my best friend now. But my best friend has been a way better friend than anyone has been to me. Today if she starts talking bullshxt again, I feel like ima punch her the face, just so she shut the FXCK up. Mess with my friends, I mess with you. *Plus this is mt FIRST fight, if I do fight her. I dont want to really, but it says “PUNCH ME” on her face. seriously…what should I do?

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Answer #1

Just try telling her ‘if that’s what you think then fine, its your life, but [insert name] is my best friend and if you have a problem with that then tell me, if you have a problem with her then tell her’

  • this will cause her to take notice of how you’re feeling about what she’s saying and make decide what she wants to do about it

hope it helps :D

Answer #2

It doesn’t matter that she was your friend first. Tell her to stop it and if she doesn’t then you are done being friends. She is doing it so she can get attention. If you get in her face about it then you are giving her exactly what she wants. If she doesn’t stop have nothing to do with her and ignore her. It will bug the sh-t out of her.

Answer #3

listen Try Telling her How you feel. Fighting should Always be a LAST Resort. But Some people just ask to get there Kicked. Try Asking Why she Talks this way, If she Just Talks Then Forget it and Tell An Adult. Then LAST LAST resort, If she says something about you fight her away from school. SHE DOSENT HAVE A LIFE IF SHE IS JUST TALKING ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE… YOU SHOULDNT WASTE YOUR TIME ON PEOPLE LIKE THAT.

Hope I helped. :D

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