How do I get my ex-boyfriend back?

This isn’t just a typical break-up situation well me and my boyfriend had only went out for about 2 weeks, but instantly we relised how good we were for eachother…we could talk, laugh, party, be honest, play video games and watch movies all night long so everything was great! We wanted a family (yes I know it seems so soon) but we were so close! And my parents loved him, so did the rest of my family! We had unprotected sex all the time so at the moment I might be pregnant but it’s to soon to tell. One night he just broke up with me telling me he wasn’t feeling it anymore. A couple days later, I asked him if he broke up with me becuase I did something wrong and he said “no you were great, I just wasn’t feeling it anymore becuase I’m going through so much sh*t right now and I don’t want to bring anyone along for the ride” I understand what he ment becuase he has to go to court again on june 2nd and he isn’t sure if he is going to jail. When we first started going out he told me his situation and I told him I would wait for him and that I wanted to be with him…he knew I had never felt the way I felt for him with anyone else. What can I say to him to have him understand that I want to be with him and be there for him? Or is he just using what he said as an excuse to leave me, even though he know’s I might be pregnant? My grandmother passed away just a couple days before he broke up with me aswell, and my best friend left and is always mad at me. I lost so much! But I can’t stand losing him becuase he was kind, gentle, sweet, strong, honest, open minded, and so much more! Please answer

Answer #1

Girl, get your head on straight…it was ONLY 2 weeks that you were together. How close can two people get in that short amount of time? If you were so “good” for each other, then why isnt he with you anymore? Sorry, but thats just YOUR opinion. If he felt the same, he never would have broke up with you. I dont understand how you can say you’ve lost so much, when it was ONLY 2 weeks out of your entire life! Personally you dont really know someone in 2 weeks. Its impossible. I suggest next time not giving into sex so soon…because sex doesnt make a guy fall in love with you. You gave it up wayy too soon, and thats why its easy for him to leave you. He had NO chance to really get attached or to fall in love with you before jumping in the sack. I cannot spell this out too strongly. If you want to win a man’s heart, do not sleep with him immediately. An honest man will tell you that if you have sex with a girl on a first date, you may enjoy it, but you are almost certain not to want to date her because you were simply too easy. Men are hunters, they enjoy the chase, and the longer it goes on, the greater the respect and the more likely you will win his heart.

Answer #2

well maybe he could be using that as an excuss because if you guys were great he wouldnt have cared he would have stayed.I dont think you should give up on him until you know it no chance and its not worth it. You shouldnt have gave it up to him to early having sex with him that was what wrong you should have waited it off because maybe that problay all he wanted. you just have to talk to him.

Im going through the same thing I want my ex back but I broke up with him.I think we still have a chance. Good luck

Answer #3

I don’t know, im srry.

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