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Okay I was molested when I was 6 by my sister’s friend, he wanted to go out with her and she said no so he said “I’ll get the next best thing” and she thought he ment her friend Jessie so I was molested. Went to the police but he didn’t get in trouble I didn’t know when I was younger I didn’t really think it was wrong. But I am 13 now and I cry sometimes in the middle of the night and sometimes have nightmares of him coming back and actully raping me. Because not to long ago my mom, sister, and my nefu went to Friendlys and we saw him. I was terrified we left and went somewhere else he smiled at us crying right now if you have been molested/raped tell me your story and if you can give me some advice on how to deal with this. I am so scarred if teenage boys I don’t want to go near them because I just remember what happened to me when I was younger.

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Answer #1

well I have just been put in some of thoes situations never been raped thank god but I do know from my mom who was raped many times and I’ve been touched inappropately (if thats how you spell it)that it takes time to get over it and it helps to go to a support group type of thing and talk to thoes you care about and know that not all boys are going to do that and you will find one that you fall in love with and that you will trust with your life know that this is just a bump in the road that you will have to emotionally handle I know it will be very hard and at times seem impossible just know that millions of women go through it and your not alone and it will take time to trust men I dont know if your religious but for me and my mom it helped to know that God wouldnt give us anything we couldnt handle and he helped us if you dont believe in god sorry for bringing him up just telling you how we got over it hope I helped a little bit just dont feel like you did something wrong and always know that people love you

Answer #2

well I have just been put in some of thoes situations never been raped thank god but I do know from my mom who was raped many times and I’ve been touched inappropately (if thats how you spell it)that it takes time to get over it and it helps to go to a support group type of thing and talk to thoes you care about and know that not all boys are going to do that and you will find one that you fall in love with and that you will trust with your life know that this is just a bump in the road that you will have to emotionally handle I know it will be very hard and at times seem impossible just know that millions of women go through it and your not alone and it will take time to trust men I dont know if your religious but for me and my mom it helped to know that God wouldnt give us anything we couldnt handle and he helped us if you dont believe in god sorry for bringing him up just telling you how we got over it hope I helped a little bit just dont feel like you did something wrong and always know that people love you

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