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How can I ride my boy good without being scared?

Me and my boy been dating for 3yrs and this is my 2nd time having sex with him but see I never had rode him because 1.this is just my 2nd time ever having sex. 2. I’m younger than him and 3. I’m bigger than him and I’m kind of scared that I mite hurt him if I get on top of him and 4. He’s way more experience than I am..I just need to know how can I ride him for a big girl?

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Answer #1

Um…not sure how old you are and I will give the standard advice here first. No matter the age or experience level ALWAYS wear a condom. Okay..now that I have that bit of Mom harping out there…

If he’s with you and has been for 3 years then clearly he doesn’t have an issue with you being a big girl.

  1. If you’re relatively new to this then woman on top is good because you can control things better.

  2. I’m afraid to ask how much younger but I have to if this being a reason for you being concerned about it.

  3. You’re not gonna hurt him.

  4. So what? If he is and you are intimate then you should be comfortable enough to take instruction from one another in the bedroom. Maybe he can give you pointers.

If he is uncomfortable he will tell you but men are more visual creatures than women. They like to see you, all of you. This gives him the opportunity to and he will enjoy that. Just follow your instinct and do what feels natural.

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