What if im the other girl in a relationship

THE ADVISOR IS RIGHT IF HE DIDNT LOVE HER ANYMORE THAN HE WOULDNT BE WITH HER! SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HE WANTS TO HAVE HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TOO! BUT IF YOU ARE GONNA KEEP UP WHAT YOU ARE DOING THEN THE COUNTY HEALTH DEPT. WILL PROVIDE FREE CONDOMS AND USUALLY BIRTH CONTROL TO MINORS. I THINK YOU SHOULD PUT YOURSELF IN HIS GIRLFRIENDS SHOES. HOW WOULD YOU LIKE THAT IF SOMEONE YOU LOVED DID THAT TO YOU?

Easy. DON’T HAVE SEX. I mean, protection is great, but the sure way to not get pregnant and not get your heart broken is to not do it : ) Ugh. The love game thing is Bullcrap. If he ACTUALLY loved you, he wouldn’t be going back and forth, like moe214 said. He obviously is just using you for the good times. Love isn’t just all about the SEX SEX SEX. Go to him. Talk to him. Tell him to dump her and date you, or get the hell out. Because otherwise, you’ll probably end up pregnant with his baby, while he’s still screwing around with his girlfriend, whom he doesn’t love anymore Luck : ) : )

Really use protection. I mean if you are not wanting a baby and isnt using birht control or any cainf of protection then it would be like traing not to get wet when you are under the rain. It just dosent work out that way!

sigh If you don’t want a baby USE PROTECTION. Have him wear a condom and/or use birth control. For the record, if he didn’t love her anymore, and wanted to be with you, he needs to break up with her instead of going back and forth, playing with feelings.