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How can I get my brother thrown out?

I know the question seems harsh, but if you knew my brother: he threatened my with a knife :( . He told me he’s going to “Sh*t on a plate” and put it next to my head while I sleep, so I roll in it.

Erm anyways, my brother is 17, soon to be 18, dropped out of college, not going to uni. He has a moped AND a car (both of which my parents paid for). I’m nearly 16, best thing parent have bought for me is my laptop <3 . But that was because I need it to do coursework. Yeah my mum is getting gradually annoyed with him too, but she doesnt want to force him to move out because hes got a job near home and stuff. But apart from that I don’t know why he can’t move out, he has like £200 cash in his room and AT LEAST £5,000 in his bank.

Erm so basically if anyone has any ideas that will like show my mum how horrid he is, and pursuade her to get him to move out… PLEASE HELP! xx

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It sounds to me as if your mom is parenting your brother with fear or guilt of some kind. He is a bully and has bullied your mom into turning a blind eye on his behavior. If it’s really as bad as you say it is, maybe you need to tell a close, trusted relative to talk to your mom about it. That way someone who has the best interest of the entire family in mind but is also removed from the situation can be a voice of reason and help sort through the real problems and underlying issues.

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