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How can I get more freedom from my parents?

in 14 and have no freedom at all—ok that exaggerating a bit, but seriously they wont let me go oout anywhere unless I inform them about it weekks before. they dont mind my mates commin gover but its going out wid them- they ownt let me do.

it because of an incident that happened a few years ago, hat they have lost my trust but its not like itll ever happen agen.

thay always assume going out wid my mates will always involve the opposite sex(boys)…I mean they know I have many mates that are boys but no way can they come around to my house or me go to theirs…

how can I gain tjhat freedom and get my parnt to trust me agen!

please help!!!

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Answer #1

Growing up is very difficult—for both you and your parents. They remember a little bundle of joy that they held and nurtured as a baby and now they see a budding adult. These days, children face things and know about things that their parents would never have imagined at the same age. The teenagers of today look older, act older and want to be older than their counterparts did just 20 years ago. It is the desire of all parents for their children grow up in the way that they should go (loving, caring, respectful, and being of good solid character). It is necessary that you truly understand that your parents have your best interests at heart. They will withhold privileges, set limits, and raise you to the best of their ability (neither they nor you are perfect), but be Thankful - They Care - many, many, many don’t. Ask them for guidance and seek to understand what truly motivates their decisions. One of the best ways to prove your maturity and prove that you are ready for more trust is to be respectful of your parent’s wishes and accept their guidance. Learn how to communicate love, honor, and respect to each other.

Answer #2

i think you should drop it for a while and suck up to them… help around the house, blahblahblah. and then talk about nice things about your friends and everything… then invite them over and have them act like a total angel… ;D

Answer #3

Hey, My parents are very similar if not worse. But what might help is if you talk to them maybe tell a few days in advance and tell them who you are going with. Maybe you could make a deal with them. Just remember your parents aren’t being mean there just simply afraid of you getting hurt or something like that. So if they meet the people you are going out with then they might be a bit more willing to let you go out. I know its annoying and hard because you are more independant now and your growing up and they really have to accept the fact. Good luck

Answer #4

your going to have to set em straight sit and talk with em one night, I mean im 14 nearly 15 and I called my dad … and he gets this proper nasty attitude. but he loves me as a son all the same. they do it because they love you and want the best for you but they have to be told that you’re smarter than to go do teh opposite sex bed related subject (need I say more) set em straight- that’sit

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