Help pleaseee lieing boyfriend

Hey, I sort of have the same problem with my girlfriend. Shell lie about stupid things and it seems like shell do it for no reason. like homework or something and shell get grounded for it and then we cant see eachother. or if shes with her friends and this one guy I hates there shell just say that she was with her friends and she does that so I dont get pissed off but it doesnt work.. I dont know what it is. I think some people feel they just have to lie. ill make her promise not to lie again but I try to come up with something to kinda scare her to a certain extent so that she wont want to lie anymore. ill say something like I dont like being with liars or I cant put up with lying in a relationship. maybe try something like that? :/

Answered by lovemachine on Jun 05, 2009, 10:34AM Add me as a friend | Send me Fun Mail | 5 answers ok you could also try telling him that if he truly loved you then he wouldnt lie to you. if he keeps lying then go and stay with a friend for a couple of days( not a guy friend a girl friend

Ah, I wish I could say if he loved me then hell do it…but it seems so unfair I mean I guess people do mess up…I just don’t know when to draw the line of him just taking advantage of me forgiving him…

Well one of the most important things in a relationship is trust and if the two of you dont have that then I would say you should call it off,but you say he’s not someone that will cheat at least you trust him enough to say it.Maybe he is just jealous of your guy friends and the only way to get back at you is to lie about certian things.Just try your best to make it stop because it can get worse believe me.

Tricky, you both obviously love each other, but these lies just get in the way. Cofronting him was a good move but as you said it hasn’t worked. If it was me I would confront him one more time (what have you got to lose?). On the texts and that, prove you do not reply by showing the not interested texts you send. If none of this works, go. If he really loved you like you discribed he would go after you and really stop everything and things will hopefully return as they were.

But don’t just take my advise, look at other people. But most of all, keep me posted. x

I trust my girlfriend 100 percent…but when she is with guys I dont know or even some 1 do…I know how easy it is to pressure someone into bed…its not hard no offence girls are easy to get in bed then he is a guy…its what most of us do…but has he ever seen you flirt with another guy? have you cheated in the past? or even chatted another guy up if none of those things…just tell him you love him and give him a big warm bj