Mom is always putting mi doin calling mi names

Mi mom is always putting mi doin calling mi names I do0o everything for her what should I do im 16 and I want to move out I get gud grade but dats not enough for her I have da rest of dis year and next ear of high school what should I do0o in da mean time I go home and stay in mi room I onlii go0o to0o da kitchen when no ons in der as well as da bath room plzz help mi I try to stay away as much as possible but that doesn’t work …what should I do0o

Answer #1

LEAVE!!! thats my answer and thats what im doing in 1 week

Answer #2

yeah I say if you have the option to leave than do it…I had to wait 3 years for a chance(my dad gettin out of prison) to leave home b/c my mother is a horrible person she’s called me a c and a b since I was like 12 and she’s been an alcoholic since forever …

Answer #3

Communication is important in any kind of relationship. Try talking to your mom and tell her that it hurts you feelings when she does that. You can’t leave your house, unless you have someone else to live with, like a close friend or family. But really, talk to her! You never know - what you say could make a big difference.

Answer #4

U didn’t mention but is your mother involved in drugs or alcohol? A parents job is to provide love and support for their children and it must be very hard for you to hear you’re own mother speaking to you this way. Is she abusive to you, other than emotionally. Do you have any v brothers or sisters and if so does she treat them the same way. You don’t mention if you’re father is there, is he there and doesn’t stand up for you? Do you have relatives in town or nearby that might would let you move in. Child Protective Services could help you move once determining you are in an emotionally abusive environment. I wouid talk to your counselor at school and see what she suggests. Be aware though that if you tell her that physical abuse she is REQUIRED by law to report it to CPS. Also, the suggestions others have given you to move in with a friend and their family will require your Moms permission. Try your counselor,and relatives if they are available first, you can not leave without being a runaway due to your age. You could try to become emancipated but it is extremely hard to obtain. Good luck to you dear, contact me if you would like an older friend to talk to! Take care!!! Talk to your counselor!!! [

Answer #5

Dude My mom hated me a year ago…she did the exact same thing your moms doin to you…I just started talking to her about how I felt…It is still hard for me to talk to my mom but I am slowly getting a better relationship with my mom. Just try to be open with her…not to open that she hurts you more but alittle at a time. maybe talk to a school counselor..

Answer #6

You get good grades? Sure doesn’t show…

Talk with her, reason with her, and if all else fails, find a grandparent or a family friend to stay with. Some people are just very narrow minded, and won’t admit something is wrong with them. Like my mom. And in some cases, me.

Answer #7

Talk to your mother, tell her how you feel, because then she might feel the guilt that shes saying whats she’s saying, and if that doesnt work, give her an option like, if you dont change the way you speak to me you can either change now, or its bye and you ent coming back its what I would do, and tell her your not bothered about leaving this might change her a bit.. x

Answer #8

Talk to a neighbor Or you could always move in with a different family member , right ? Like your grandmother or something

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