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Should I just leave her alone now?

My girlfriend recently broke up with me for the second time. The first time she said she needed her space. We didn’t talk for a couple of days and then she IMed me. WE got to talking and I went to her softball game and after she asked me to go swimming, I did and the next thing I know she asked me back out. Only a week later. So like a fool I took her back. We started going out again for another week and a half and she broke up with me over the stupidest thing. She told me never to call her again. I haven’t talked to her and it’s been a week and I can’t get her off of my mind! So far the advice I got was not to talk to her, she’ll IM me or call me when she’s ready to talk. Then when we talked I was going to ask her out for lunch and then continue to talk to her. After a while I hope that she was going to ask me out again. Is this advice bad or good. I’ve been with her for a year and 8 months and I honestly think she’s the love of my life. We have so many memories together.

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Answer #1

Hi. My boyfriend and I were together for a year and 6 months. I loved him more than anything. And even though its been 2 months since he broke up with me i love him and miss him everyday. We argued a lot but we never let that blind us of the fact that we were happy and we loved each other more than anything we had ever felt before. But it got to a point when he said… I cant do this anymore… and even though he still loved me he knew he had to let me go… which probably hurt me the most. I didnt understand how he could love me and yet still set me free. The only way I make it through each day is when I wake up, I pray for him and I tell myself that he really is the one for me but right now just wasnt the time that God had planned for us… I tell myself that he will find his way back to me one day… and I pray that he will. Sometimes even though you love someone you have to let them go. Because even though it hurts… letting go is easier than holding onto something that is never coming back. Remember that standing up in the rain when all you want to do is give up… helps you find yourself… and maybe once you discover who you really are… maybe you will also discover that God is writing your love story and he has plans for you that you could never imagine… and one other thing… God… his fairytales always end with a happy ending…

Hope Ive Helped! God Bless, And may he ease your broken heart. -Ashley

Answer #2

try talking to her telling her how you feel when your around her and that when your apart you can’t stop thinking about her.good luck i hope you get back together.

Answer #3

Women usually don’t freak out and leave long relationships over “the stupidest thing”. Figure out what it was that drove her away and find it in your heart to approach her about it. If you don’t try to find the compassionate side of yourself and prove that you can be an adult, she may never be the love of your life.

Answer #4

this is how my relationship was. you know like they have said talk to her and tell her how much you trully care about her and how much she means to you. but also tell her what she does that makes you upset. dont let her walk all over you but dont walk all over her either. walk together. but if she is the right one for you then leave behind all the problems and get back together. make the world a better place smile and be happy together i know you guys can work something out and i hope you do. but remember communication is the key point to any relationship. talk about everything. and smile

Answer #5

Will the best advice i can give you is to give her some time she will come around the more you try call her an stuff more you might push her way sounds like you to been together a good while an i am sure you to will work it out mabey she just needs time an she mixed up right now about how she feels i hope this helps i no hard but hang in there if you need anymore advice send me message

Answer #6

I THINK YOU GOT TO TALK TO HER HOW YOU ARE FEELING INSIDE .
TELL HER HOW MUCH THE RELATIONSHIP MEANS TO YOU . ASK HER QUESTIONS , ASK HER WHATS GOING ON . ASK HER WHETHER THINGS ARE OKAY ROUND HER . DON’T GIVE UP SO EASILY (: TRY TO GET HER BACK IF YOU THINK ITS OKAY TO YOU . GOOD LUCK(:

Answer #7

so what happened?

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