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Guy friend no longer wants a friendship?

I have a guy friend who I really care for as a friend but lately things aren’t going as good. Past few weeks we’ve been in contact through text messaging. Lately though he’s been sending me mixed signals. He would sometimes talk about how we should cuddle because he says he has feelings for me. Recently though, I talked to him again and we just started having a normal conversation. Then randomly he says ‘no more friends’. I asked him why don’t you want to be friends? He first says ‘I don’t know’ and then says ‘you get mad to much.’ I asked him what do I get mad over? He just says ‘I don’t know goodbye.’ I told him he was making a mistake because I know that we would have a great time together like going muddin or the movies lol (I know that wasn’t nessary to say but I was upset). He then asks me ‘what would you do if you saw me in the shower alone?’ I asked him why I would be their in the first place? He says ‘we can’t be friends.’ I waited almost two weeks and finally called him but he still didn’t want to talk and I feel like this is my fault.

So since he doesn’t want to tell me, can someonee plese explain what exactly happend or went down? will we be friends again? Please help <3

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Answer #1

Things change though - feelings change.

Answer #2

I don’t think that is possible because he knew that I liked him awhile ago but only said that he would hurt me if we started dating. So took that as a ‘not interested’ and left it as that and we were friends again…

Answer #3

From what I understand, its killing him inside that you are just friends. I’ve seen this happen over and over again. People get attached to one of their good friends and it starts to eat them up inside knowing they are just friends. Trust me, it hurts so much being “just friends” with someone you want really badly. I’m almost certain this is what is going on. I’ve been in the same position as him and I didn’t want to talk about it either because it just hurts more. If you have feelings for him then you need to tell him, if you don’t then just let him be for now.

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