What do I do about this guy who I feel totally uncomfortable around?

There’s this guy in my English class and lately he’ll randomly just start talking to me and he even practically asked me to go to homecoming. So by that I know he probably likes me but the thing is I don’t feel the same way at all. He actually makes me a little uncomfortable when he talks to me. At first I didn’t mind but then now he just makes me really uncomfortable. I guess it’s because I just don’t feel any attraction to him whatsoever and he’s giving me this much attention. I’m off school for a week now so I won’t see him for 9 days but I want some answers now. I don’t want to be rude to him but at the same time I don’t really want to talk to him either. I’m sorry if that sounds mean but it’s true. How should I deal with this next time?

Answer #1

Si he a friend of yours or not? The only way this is ever awkward for me is if it’s a friend of mine who seems to be showing feelings, when I don’t have feelings for them. Then you have to talk about it and it’s just kind of ugh. If you don’t like the guy be blunt about it, I don’t pretend to like people I don’t like, if he asks you to go to homecoming or anyhting like that just tell him you’re not interested in him that way, you can even say it politely if you so desire.

Answer #2

No he’s not really a friend. He only just started talking to me now. Thanks I’ll probably have to tell him that if he really does ask me out

Answer #3

Don’t put yourself in a situation to where you are all alone with this guy. If you are uncomfortable just be sure to keep yourself safe. Get to know him more and then your feelings will change over time.

Answer #4

No they won’t. He’s just not my type and that’s the thing. I don’t want to get to know him

Answer #5

Relax, even if you feel uncomfortable around him, you don’t need to show it! Smile, be yourself. No one will know if you are feeling uncomfortable.

Answer #6

Look, I dont think we have much common and I’m not interested in you in that way. If he cannot take a subtle hint that you’re not interested, you may have to be direct. You’re not being rude, you’re being honest. Eventually you may start being rude because you’re irritated with him and fed up. You may as well just be direct now.

Answer #7

Would it be too much out of your character and difficult to merely tell him to piiss off and leave you alone? If not, tell him to piiss off and leave you alone.

Answer #8

Is this the guy from a few weeks back that was making you laugh?

Answer #9

No that was a different guy. This guy just started talking to me

Answer #10

dont be rude but be very straight forward. its the only way to deal with these kinds of people. say “hey i dont think its good for us to be friends. im sorry but you make me feel kind of uncomfortable” its easy and it works

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