What if I'm ruining my relationship by not having s*x?

okay I asked 2 questions relating to this before. about me and my boyfriend discussing s e x
well I told him about it in a very calm way… I told him that I was just not ready to go all the way because im way too young and that I dont want to take any chances of getting pregnant. well I just now told him and he hasnt really talked to me and all he had to say was “k” and when I told him I was sorry and that id let him know when I was ready to do it he just said “k” yet again. and I don’t know I think that I made the right decision but I didnt want it to affect our relationship… but I think I did… :’( what do you think ?

Answer #1

Dont be surprised if he dumps you over this. Hes just showing how he truly feels about you. Hes more interested in sx, than he is in you! Dont ever have sx if you think you are going to lose someone…because s*x will NOT keep them!!! This guy isnt worth keeping in my opinion. Dump him, before he dumps you.

Answer #2

I agree with angelfire2708. If he dumps you for this don’t beat yourself up. It’s not your fault. He was after s*x, and thats it.

Answer #3

You did the right thing girl. If he cares anything for you he will accept it.

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