dont want to go to trial... scared

just relax it isnt as bad as youre making it out to be.. most of its kinda boring actually.. just relax, hang with friends, and dont think much of itt.. all they do is ask a few questions, you answer honestly, then your done..

Babe I know how hard this is but if you dont do it he’s not gunna pay for what he did! How would you feel if he did the same thing to some other innocent girl? You have to do this for your safety & people around you. Rape is one of the most terrifying things anyone can go thru. My friend got rapped by her dad, she didnt want to go to trial but she did because she knew she wouldnt be able to forgive herself if he did the same thing to someone else.

It’s never an easy thing for anyone - you should be proud that you are going to trial against him though and putting him away so that he can not harm another girl like he did you. Just remember that what you are doing is a very brave and amazing thing and that you should be proud of yourself to have the courage - because most girls dont the guys get away and hurt more girls.

It’s natural to be nervous, but it is VERY important that you carry through. For 2 reasons. One is to help take this creep out of circulation, but for YOU it is equally important to your self esteem that you do not allow yourself to be victimized. Standing up to this guy will make you a much stronger person. I’m sorry that this happened to you. My deep condolences. Good Luck!!

p.s. I know someone who was beaten by her fiancee, and filed charges. He claimed innocent right up to the trial date, and then pleaded guilty just before the trial. Hopefully your scumbag will do that. But whether he does or doesn’t, you will become a stronger person because you would not just accept the crime, but fought it!!!

do go this is one of the only things you can do to make sure he gets what he deservs he deserves to go to jail for this,…he deserves a lot worse as well but right now jail is the only good option im sure what hes done has hurt you emotionally and for that alone he deserves to go to jail im sure you dont want this disgusting guy to go free were he could possibly rape other girls as well do the right thing, send this bastard to jail it might be hard going in front of a people and letting out your emotions, and talking about it, but if you dont, youll just feel a lot worse think about it this way, whats going to make you happier seeing him go free for what hes done or seeing him go to jail for whats hes done send him to jail, be brave, its okay to cry in front of people and talk about it, they wont think any less of you, and his doing wasnt your fault so send that disgusting man to jail