How to figure out my feelings for him?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for five years now, living in his country. I recently visited home and was so happy there with my family and everything familiar… when I was there he called me almost every day, but I hardly missed him at all. I feel terrible.

I came back and last night was our first night together and it all felt so distant, he even said that he thought I’d changed.. the thing is I’m not sure if I love him now.. but then maybe it’s just being back here and away from my family which I miss so much..

What do I do? Should I see how things go? Things have to get better, I keep crying and thinking I just want to go back home… but if I do that I’m scared that I’ll regret not trying harder …

oh, please give me some advice.. what do you do when you don’t know how you feel??

Answer #1

Your answer to your question is in your question. When you went home to see your family, you said you hardly missed him. I would think after five years you would be able to see he is not that important in your life. Go back home & be with your family. I believe he is just a habit to you. Living w/someone for five years is a long time if you are not sure about your feelings. I don’t believe you will have any regrets. God Bless.

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