What if I'm scared I won't do it right?

My boyfriend and I are thinkning about having s*x but I know he is not a virgin and I am. Im scared I won’t know how to do it. any advice?

Answer #1

You do not need any advice. The boy is not virgin, so he knows what he wants to do with you. The only thing you may do is to follow his acts and demands. But you should be determined in one respect: the boy must be gentle with you and follow the rythm of your warming up. That is your task to infrom him about that where you are in this respect.

Answer #2

If you’re scared then that means you shouldn’t do it.

If you are going to have sex then you need to go in prepared. Of course use condoms but did you think about if the condom breaks? Condoms have a failure rate of around 20%. (which is alarming odds if you want to prevent pregnancy and STIs) Do you know where to get the morning pill/emergency contraceptive pill/plan B?

When you begin having sex then that means it’s time for an annual visit to a gynecologist for exams to make sure everything is ok down there and you’re STI & STD free.

If you’re not ready to take charge of your sexual health, then you’re not ready for sex.

xox Sika

Answer #3

but don’t do it if you’re not 100% ready!

Answer #4

first off, USE A CONDOM. this is what I did, let him take control… when you get into it, you’ll know what to do.

Answer #5

if you get it wrong he’ll probably dump you i would

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