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Did he use me for sex?

I am attracted to this boy 5 years older than me, I keep thinking he used me for sex. After we did sexual things, he has been neglecting me and now we don’t even talk OR SAY HELLO to each other! Im so confused. Did he use me? But why would he use someone so much younger than him when he COULD get someone older with no problem. Now we aren’t even friends, What the fuck!? Why! Was I crap in bed? Did I not please him? Was I “not up to his standards”! What have I done!

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Answer #1

Oh darlin, some guys are like that… he probaly did just want to have sex with you… you should just ignore him and if he ever tries to get back to you ignore him… dont ever have sex or anything with him again…i dont know why he went all weird like this on you but its him not you…

Answer #2

Well guese this man only wanted to sleep with you and dump you afterwards, Anywhere dont you worry alot about that coz thats what life is all about, juss ignore him if he comes again and l can see that you are still young and you can also move on with your life.

Hope this will help u

Answer #3

Both of you are quite young to commit yourself, this period of the life is for collecting experiences. So you 2 used each other for sex and not only you were used. Do not worry, you will find the boy who fits to you. At least you learned that, yes, sex may turn to negligence.

Answer #4

Yes he did use you for sex. He went with someone younger because generally (and don’t take offense to this) it’s easier for a guy to get a younger girl into bed. It’s also not unusual for him to try it again thinking you’ll still be just as naive the second and third and maybe forth time. He’ll tell you he’s sorry and that he loves you and that you’ll be together always. Don’t listen. Move on.

Answer #5

No offence, but did you even get to know the guy before you got in bed with him?

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