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How can I deal with my baby's daddy's wife?

recently my baby daddy got married , I dont care for his wife and I dont want her physically dealing with my son I know shes there when my baby dad takes my son but I have a problem with her taking some of my duties I hear that now that she married to him that she has rights to him to !! does anybody know about this kinda stuff …? personally I think thats bulls*hit

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Answer #1

I think it would be best to find a way to talk to each other so the child can have the best possible life ever. I think you still care about him the reason it is the problem. I agree with harley, when you meet a new man, things will be different. You will expect him to be a big part of your child’s life just like your baby’s daddy is doing.

Answer #2

She has no rights to him but she is his stepmother now. When you meet a new man how are you going to feel when your childs father says the same to you about your new man. Unfortunately this is part of what happens when one of the parents is in a new relationship. She will never be his mother, you always will, but whilst his father is with him, his wife will be too. You can’t expect her to ignore him when he’s in her company. Be thankfull that she is treating him good. And i agree with the comment made above me. For the sake of your child, try to make things good for him.

Your his mother and always will be , just remember that.

Answer #3

talk 2 her

Answer #4

no she doesnt have any rights to your child i would be pi$$ed and you should def do something bout it

Answer #5

Difficult situation, I think I would have a talk with the baby’s Dad and make 3 things perfectly clear: 1) she is not to discipline him (the Dad’s job only) 2) never should he be permitted to call her ‘Mom’ (something else, but not that - he doesn’t need confusion) 3) anytime he is in the presence of the 3 of you - all of you will be pleasant to each other (united in front for him) and certainly, watch your language…I think this is reasonable and I wish all of you the best !!

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