How can I deal with my baby's daddy's wife?

She has no rights to him but she is his stepmother now. When you meet a new man how are you going to feel when your childs father says the same to you about your new man. Unfortunately this is part of what happens when one of the parents is in a new relationship. She will never be his mother, you always will, but whilst his father is with him, his wife will be too. You can’t expect her to ignore him when he’s in her company. Be thankfull that she is treating him good. And i agree with the comment made above me. For the sake of your child, try to make things good for him.

Your his mother and always will be , just remember that.

talk 2 her

no she doesnt have any rights to your child i would be pi$$ed and you should def do something bout it

Difficult situation, I think I would have a talk with the baby’s Dad and make 3 things perfectly clear: 1) she is not to discipline him (the Dad’s job only) 2) never should he be permitted to call her ‘Mom’ (something else, but not that - he doesn’t need confusion) 3) anytime he is in the presence of the 3 of you - all of you will be pleasant to each other (united in front for him) and certainly, watch your language…I think this is reasonable and I wish all of you the best !!