How to deal with an overbearing Grandmother?

My grandmother was worse…lol she would put me down and tease me and compare me to wealthy kids who had a stable home…! she would not like the way i applied my make-up.. and she would get mad if i hung out with other people from “ my hood “ i was considered in the family as the poor ghetto child..lol who cares i am happy.. anyways i am glad i moved away from her but she still calls.. and now i keep telling my mother to not give her the new number LOL! but anyways don’t let her get to you and run your life.. you are an adult and old enough to do whatever you want.. and the hell if you want to wear your eyeliner like amy winehouse and do your eyebrows like pamela lee anderson then go ahead as long as you are comfortable and like it..!

Just say yes ma’am and no Ma’am and continue with what your doing from time to time you may do what she says just to please her. She may have some problems with her mind related to age so always be kind to her ( sometimes these problems are not as noticable as others). But if she is just a total control freak Hang up when she starts yelling and let her know you will hang up. It may hurt at times but it will get the point across. . . . .

My grandmother wants to control everything! She is always right according to her. She thinks she can control me by doing stuff for me and then throwing it in my face later.I am appreciate her but I dont want her to take over me and my kids life.