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I have a crush on a guy but don't know how to approach, any advice?

So I recently transferred to a new University which is in a different city about 2 hours then where I lived before. I moved there permanently now. I only know few people that I met at the school and so far it has been great. I met this guy through a mutual friend and he gave rides few times to the grocery store. He told me to shoot him a text or call him if I ever needed anything or wanted to see around the city but never did. He already graduated from the university and doesn’t go there anymore unfortunately. He’s seems a nice guy and kind of got interested in him. So how do I approach him since I don’t see him often and he doesn’t contact me. I kinda feel bad that I only contact him when I need a ride which is rare and only happened twice. What should I text him or say to him to give him the hint that I’m interested in him? He one time asked me if I was seeing anyone and told him I wasn’t but never took it serious since we were kidding around. So I thought maybe he might be interested in me too but doesn’t know how to approach me.

So what should I do? Thanks.

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Answer #1

Simply start off with a text like “heyy, been awhile I haven’t talked to you. How’ve you been? I’m craving sushi… know any good places around here?” When he answers… and if he’s a nice guy.. I bet he will! :) Ask him if he’s intrested in going for sushi with you! Then take it from there!

Answer #2

The other answer seems pretty good. Maybe even just ask how he is and again, state that you havent seen him in ages, and whats new with him

Answer #3

I think you should attempt at re-building the relationship, re-socialize with him more often and such. Don’t dive straight in there, depending on the male, he mightn’t like it, or be somewhat nervous by sudden eager behaviour. Maybe you could drop in deliberate little hints in time, like mentioning you used to have a thing for him, don’t even think about it, just blurt I guess C: I’m not the most experienced with men/crushes but I find it easiest to ‘accidently’ on purpose make little mistakes as I speak, suprise is easy to feign if you’re shy around a guy.

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