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Should I continue going after this girl I’ve been talking to all summer, since she’s going to my college, now that she has a high school boyfriend? She’s shown interest, by inviting to meet me for a movie, and we’ve talked all summer. We have not hung out b/c of the distance between us, but I will be going back to college, where she said she wants to hang with me once school starts back up.

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Answer #1

Sure, but first have her make up her mind. She can’t be dating two guys at the same time. Well, she could.. but that would be kinda wrong.

Answer #2

See the real problem is that she might think of you as just a friend. Meeting you for a movie, big deal- friends do that anyway. I think if she is still with her high school boyfriend, you should just let up no matter how you feel about her- that’s what makes you a guy. Trust me I’ve been here before but I’ve realised that there’s plenty more ‘fish’ in the ocean. More girls will come.DON’T allow her to define your happiness.

Answer #3

yeah, she definately needs to make up her mind.ok so.. when you guys are on your next ‘date’ or what you want to call it. like you had said that you went to a movie with her before… well if you go to another.. and have an amazing time ( <— that parts important) then take her someone more private and tell her you had an amazing time, but that she needs to make up her mind on who she’s dating and who are her friends. Hope that helped. =)

Answer #4

uh id go with lela on this one.

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