Confused and alone

He’s not interested, so you should leave it at that. However, I’m really GLAD that you at least gave it a go and you don’t have to ask yourself “what if” if you didn’t. You now have no regrets.

And another thing is, you don’t need a boyfriend to be happy. Period. From your question, it just looks like you want a boyfriend so you can fit in with the girls in school who do have a boyfriend. Let’s face it though, a lot of other girls in school don’t have boyfriends and are fine with it, and some aren’t even thinking of having a boyfriend at your age!

You can’t let someone define your happiness. Besides, most of these girls will end up breaking up with their boyfriends soon and move on to other relationships anyway. It’s a statistical fact. Kids in school aren’t mature enough to handle and maintain a secure relationship. Granted, some kids still go out with their “high school sweethearts”, but that is a very very small number.

So yes, you don’t have to go searching for one. And kricket is right, that you usually find someone when you aren’t looking. It’s good to develop good friendships, with girls and guys. I say don’t worry about it too much because you will find someone special sooner or later. Don’t force a guy to like you because he will not be ready and in turn he might not treat you like you deserve.

hey thanks I guess? :) I am so glad that there is one person that will talk. do you think that that will work? I am not going for him anymore I want someone special not that I am super special or anything but I feel so dumb around guys. do you know how to fix that?

Go with the flow let the guys come to you. Have fun being flirty not hoey but just flirtacious you know :) have fun and if a guy starts acting flirty with you of if you hear he likes you then stick on that guy if he interests you and see where it goes.

There is a song that goes a little somethin like this YOUR looking FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES .. BLA BLA BLA :)