Can I move out legally if I am 16 and pregnant with a place to go?

I need to to know if I am legally allowed to move out while being sixteen and pregnant. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and have decided to keep the baby. We are both extremely excited! However, my parents are more strict then most and the situation at home is not to pleasent. Both of our parents know of the pregnancy. My parents do not want us to keep the baby, and keep pushing me to get an abortion. Something I have made very clear is against my morals. Both my boyfriend and I have great jobs, and his mother has a very large house dedicating an entire basement for us and the baby. I believe this is the most healthy envrinment for the baby but legally;; if they say no, can I still move out?

Answer #1

felineeyez… I agree with you…These kids now and days think that having a baby is easy and cheap. I am sorry but no body at 16yrs old is ready for a baby when they are still babies them self. and nobody at 16 has a good paying job. I am 27 and I have 2 kids and I had my 1st daughter at 21 and I was already married and not b/c I was pregnant and still to me 21 is too young 1st b/c financially babies are expensive and need a lot of attention and needs. and 2nd you dont really get to enjoy your youth and prepare your self for a career and I honestly think that if your parents are strict with you its because you give them the motive to be. Your parent won’t be strict with you if you were showed them that you are a responsible teenager, and is at least willing to finish school to make them proud. and not letting a boy and a baby ruin your future. What parent will be proud of their daughter when the only thing she accomplished was having a baby, no education and runaway. think about it the only thing they want is for you to progress in life and take everything step by step but the right way finish school, go to college, get a career, then get married, get your house then a baby. all of this can be done by the time you are 25. and wouldnt have to be a disapointment later on when you are older you are going to wonder why things didnt go right for you. and remember once you are living in your boyfriend home. by the time your baby is 2 years old your man is going to be tierd of you is going to want his freedom and his parents expecially will want you out if you are a nagger and messy, and lazy. Hun 16 is not a right age to leave you house have a baby and disapoint your family. think about it

Answer #2

First off ilybabyfrvr, I am grown I can say what I want, I’m experienced in many things okay, everything that I said will happen, will happen sweetie, that little girl needs to be scared, she is in a risky situation that is going to ruin her life and that child’s life and if me scaring her will help her do the right thing then oh well, because if she decides to do it the way that she wants then when everything unfolds she will be terrified, you all think I am scaring her wait until she experience life as a teenager with a child, and oh I can explain it the way I want to sweetie, trouble with the law is one thing, but all the other things is LIFE… and if you think its all going to be sweet and an older experienced person is telling you that it wont be then she should listen, and me calling you a dodo bird was not me giving you advice, I can care less about you, being that I know you are a promiscuous little girl…(I read your questions)… it was me calling it how I see it sweetie you are young and know nothing, I am not here to waste my time and energy on you im done with you little girl, there no use for me to go back and forth with you because you don’t get it, but you soon will. LIFE is not a game, but of course you would not know that because you are the same little girl that let a boy come in your mouth, you are not on my level so you have nothing to say to me you are a disgusting little girl, I bet he ran and told all of his friends, you cannot give anyone advice sweetie you need some yourself, I am DONE with you.

Answer #3

Okay. The chick with the caps needs to act her age! My girlfriends father is chief of police and a sixteen year old is able to move in with her boyfriend if pregnant! So seriously you need to stay away from questions that you have no idea what you are talking about. And to call her a doodoo brain! Haha I thought you was a grown woman? Well you need to start acting like it! Sweetheart I’m proud that you are wanting to keep the baby. And another thing. I am sixteen and just found out I am pregnant. Well guess what! I am makin almost ten dollars an hour, an I have five grand in my account so don’t you dare say a sixteen yearold cannot do it! I think you need to stop giving advice If you don’t understand the law. So grow up! And stop being mean all because she wants to be an independnt teen mom!!

Answer #4

ILYBABYFRVR, YOU GROW UP, AND OH I CAN WRITE IN CAPS ALL DAMN DAY LONG IF I WANT TO, SWEETIE I AM GROWN WITH KIDS OK, THE BOTH OF YOU ARE JUST BABYS I AM 9 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU, I HAVE BABY SISTERS YOUR AGE AND OLDER SWEETIE, I KNOW LAW ENFORCEMENT, I HAVE UNCLES AND A GREAT GRANDFATHER WHO WAS IN LAW ENFORCEMENT, I TOLD HER THE TRUTH, SHE HAS TO MAKE HER OWN DESTINY IN LIFE, AND IF SHE LEAVES HOME EVERYTHING I SAID WILL HAPPEN, SEEN IT A MILLION TIMES LITTLE GIRL,SHE NEEDS TO BE SCARED PREGNANT AT 16, WHAT TYPE OF GOOD JOBS DOES 2 SIXTEEN YEAR OLDS HAVE??? IS HE A LAWYER?? IS SHE A DOCTOR??? BECAUSE THOSE ARE GOOD JOBS FOR RAISING KIDS DODO BRAIN!!! THE BOTH OF YOU CAN GOOGLE IT AND LOOK IT UP, NOT TRYING TO SCARE HER, BUT THATS REALITY, IN HER SITUATION AT LEAST. YOU ARE JUST AS DUMB AS HER, WHAT TYPE OF ADVICE CAN A KID HER AGE GIVE HER, SHE ASKED CAN SHE MOVE OUT LEGALLY AND I ANSWERED THE QUESTION AND TOLD HER WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF SHE DOES, NOW IF SHE IS SCARED BY MY REACTION AND COMMENTS OH WELL SHE SHOULD BE, IT WILL HAPPEN, AND SHE WILL BECOME ANOTHER STATISTIC, AND YOU WILL BE THE NEXT STATISTIIC TO BECOME PREGNANT AS A TEEN,(IF NOT ALREADY) DROP OUT OF SCHOOL AND BE THE DUMB DODO BIRD THAT YOU ARE, I HAVE AN EDUCATION, AND NEVER BEEN PREGNANT AS A TEEN SWEETIE, SO LITTLE GIRL YOU GROW UP AND HOLLA AT ME WHEN YOU GET ON MY LEVEL SWEETIE CAUSE YOU GOT A LONG WAY TO GO… YOU LIL GIRLS DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO CLEAN YOUR POCKETBOOKS YET, BETCHA YOU NEVA EVEN HAD AN ORGASM YET, YOU DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO HAVE SEX, THESE LITTLE BOYS ARE JUST USING YOU ALL ,AND TAKING ADVANTAGE OF YOUR BODIES, AND YOU LET THEM, THIS IS NOT CUTE AT ALL… SAD,SAD STORY

Answer #5

Felineeyez, Grow up, learn how to spell and stop writing in caps. She needs advice not someone trying to hurt and scare her.

Answer #6

you tell her esp12… these little girls are to crazy these days when I was 16 a baby was the last thing I was thinking about,

Answer #7

where you from? in the UK you can legally move out at 16

Answer #8

you could go to court about it or get emancipated

Answer #9

honey don’t listen to them. they shouldnt be doin this. ok well lets see something happened so your pregnant you can always go and get emancipated and or give guardianship to your boyfriends mother. its totally illagal if you just go and your parents might report you they might not. but ya it will be hard to take care of the baby but you can do it its not impossible keep an open mind and just do what you have to. o and if your guy is excited bout the baby don’t worry bout him leavin you not all guys just want sex some are in it for love. guess you got a good guy… so good luck and congrats =D.

Answer #10

You’re trying to grow up way too fast.16 is too young

Answer #11

NO, LET ME TELL YOU WHAT WILL HAPPEN JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE A BABY DOESNT MAKE YOU GROWN IF YOU ARE NOT, YOUR PARENTS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOU NOT YOU BOYFRIENDS MOTHER, YOUR PARENTS HAVE THE RIGHT TO CALL THE POLICE IF YOU LEAVE, AND SINCE THEY ARE STRICT IM SURE THEY KNOW THEIR RIGHTS AS PARENTS, THEN WHAT WILL HAPPEN IS YOU WILL BECOME LISTED AS A RUNAWAY, NOW THE POLICE WONT COME FOR YOU ASAP, BUT THEY WILL CONTACT YOUR JOB AND YOUR BOYFRIENDS MOTHER, AFTER THAT THEY WILL CONTACT YOUR FRIENDS, YOUR BOYFRIENDS MOTHERS HOUSE WILL BE THEIR TARGET SHE WILL GET 1 WARNING TO NOT LET YOU IN OR AROUND HER HOUSE, AFTER THAT THEY WILL WATCH HER HOUSE AND IF YOU ARE CAUGHT COMING IN OR OUT OF IT SHE WILL BE ARRESTED FOR HARBORING A RUNAWAY,( IF YOU DONT BELIEVE ME LOOK IT UP) AND YOU WILL BE TOOKEN TO A JUVENILE BUILDING WHERE YOU HAVE TO SLEEP IN A PISSY ROOM WITH ANOTHER STRANGE GIRL UNTIL YOU ARE CALLED FOR COURT, DURING COURT THE JUDGE WILL ASK YOUR PARENTS ABOUT YOUR BEHAVIOR, YOUR PARENTS ARE IN CONTROL WHETHER YOU STAY IN JUVY OR NOT, NOT YOUR BOYFRIENDS MOTHER!!! THEN… WHEN YOU GET FAT, HE WILL NOT LOOK AT YOU AS BEING SEXY AT ALL, OTHER GIRLS WILL LOOK SEXY TO HIM, AFTER THE BABY YOU WILL NOT ONLY BE FAT BUT FAT WITH STRETCHMARKS, AND HUGE BREAST THAT WILL LEAK MILK IN PUBLIC AND LEAVE EMBARASSING STAINS ON YOUR SHIRTS, AT 8 MONTHS PREGNANT YOU WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SEE YOUR FEET LET ALONG PLEASE HIM SEXUALLY SO HE WILL SEE OTHER GIRLS FOR THAT, HE WILL SLOWLY DRIFT AWAY FROM YOU, AND THEN WHEN THE BABY IS 5 MONTHS OLD YOU WILL NOT BE HIS GIRLFRIEND ANYMORE, YOU WILL JUST BE HIS BABY MOTHER, AND THEN YOUR PARENTS WILL ONCE AGAIN BE RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING THEY TOLD YOU AND HOPEFULLY FOR THE LAST TIME YOU WILL HEAR THEM SAY…I TOLD YOU SO!!! THINK SMART, LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS THEY WONT TELL YOU ANYTHING TO HURT YOU, I PROMISE YOU THIS

Answer #12

way to go honey, im glad your going to let the baby live. felineeyez is horribly pessimistic about the whole thing, babys are beautiful and totally worth everything. I can totally see why you would want to move out, if I wz pregnant I would do the same thing, or put him/her up for adoption with a family that lives relitively near by. however abortion is totally out of the question for me. emancipation is the best option for you right now, you seem to have thought this out and I hope everything turns out great for you. :)

Answer #13

you guys advice stink babygirl itll be ok not the best ever but youll get by I had my son at 16 im 18 now engaged to my babyfather and got my highschool diploma last year and his fall I start attending atlanta state university for nuerology ii have a good paying job now and had one then dont let these people stress you out if you feel as if you wanna leave leave I leftwhen I was 16 because my parents were acting like dicks but they see I made it without them ii live in my own house have my own car pay my own bills and take care of my child babygirl dont stress over it…wriite me back so ii can know how you coming along kk

Answer #14

I never said I wanted a baby, or that it was easy, or cheap or any of the things you said. I don’t think calling people “dodo birds” is really considered advice, and you should stop trying to scare and hurt people on here. Yes, I understand that thinks do not work out 90 % of the time, but maybe instead of saying that theyre letting everyone down, going to drop out, have no money, starve, be arrested, get fat, etc, etc, etc. Why not just explain that there will be trouble with the law, and it will be difficult, like she asked.

Answer #15

okay esp12 I am sorry but when your 16 you are not a baby, your a TEENAGER a baby is like 6-9 months so dont say that 16year olds are babies when they are not? But yes 16 yoear olds shouldnt have babies at that age but if teens are going to have unprotected sex and if they get pregnant then thats there only fault, and a lot of teens dont plan of having a baby at that age. and felineeyez that is so not true that her boyfriend is going to leave her and when your pregnant its not fat you dumby its called your getting big cause you are pregnant and the baby is growing, AND HONESTLY I AM 16 AND IF I WAS PREGNANT DAMN RIGHT I WOULD MOVE OUT I WOULDNT GO LIVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND AND HIS MOM, MY BOYFRIEND AND I WOULD MOVE OUT AND GET AN APARTMENT AND TAKE CARE OF THE BABY BY OUR SELFS LIKE YOUNG ADULTS WOULD.

so girly dont listen to what they have to say and do what your heart tells you:] and honestly if you and your boyfriend want to take care your baby by your selfs and be young adults then go and do it. but have strit parents are good, trust me I know I have a really strit dad I know what its like

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