Breaking up

and breaking up will help you stop crying? feelings arent ust discarded that way but if it makes you feel better go ahead, why wait…I mean its not like you love him right? ooops you say you do? oh I thought you were joking because you just said you have to break up. do you think it doesnt hurt him?

Cause it hurts so much. hes in the uk & I’m in the usa. I won’t be able to see him until I’m 18 cause my parents won’t let me go until then. I’m sick of missing him,thinking about him 24/7,crying everyday,& being sad all the time. it’s ripping my life apart but I love him so much I’m trying to hang on but I just can’t take it any more. I’m actually crying now :(

Wow well this is a good question because im inone too that’s the same way and I fell like I need to break up with my girlfriend because I really love her and would do anything for her but in your position what I would do is talk to him first and then just tell him how you feel you know and also just explain what it is that you want for the both of yopu guys and try to make it work you know but if that doesn’t work im sorry hope this helped

Long distance relationships are hard, I know. But, you have a life outside of him, and he has a life outside of you. You also have your whole life ahead of you, and being depressed about the situation is preventing you from enjoying your life. Instead of breaking up and never speaking again, maybe you should just be his friend for now. I’m not sure how old you are, but maybe once you are 18 the two of you will be able to start over if you both feel that you want to try it again. In the meantime, get to know yourself and do the things that make you happy. You are too young and too smart to be upset and crying all the time.

Thanks so much! :)

Why do you feel as though you can’t continue being in your long distance relationship?