boyfriend spending the night?

Well it doesn’t sound like that’s going to work, i don’t think your dad is going to respond to your question like you would like, and i think you should wait for that kind of thing… i would just settle for hanging out with him at the mall, beach, movies etc..

jason

Not only is it too soon for him to be staying the night but it’s too soon because you’re both really young. I mean yeah, you would definitly need to ask you parent/guardian, whoever that is but I highly doubt that if your father has a brain that he’s going to let his 14 year old daughter have her boyfriend stay the night.

It is def to soon for this, you are very young to have a bf let alone ask your dad for him to sleep over, where exactly is he going to sleep? i hope your not thinking your dad will agree to him sleeping in your room with you! becos he’ll not only say no, but his trust for you will be rocky becos you shouldnt be asking this of him, you have only been going out for 1 week and shouldnt take advantage of your dads home to have a boy stay over.

hey….well im 15 and i stay the night with my boyfriend atleast once or twice a week because we both have school, but i have also been dating him for 5 months. I think that one week is kinda soon to be having him stay the night. its your choice though. dont do anything you would regret later in life, because when and if you guys brake up i know youll regret it because i did something stupid when i was 13 and i regreted it alot. i was so ashamed of myself. also, it depends on how cool your dad is, because at 14 yeah its kinda young but i cant really talk cause i stayed with my boyfriend when i was 14, but also my parents didnt know. so ywah. and also think about what the boys parents might think, since he is only 13….hope this helps. if you need to ask something more just write me…bye..

Well….the question is…how would this boy’s parents think about you asking him to spend the night???? May not make you or your family look very prim and proper..ya know… Now if his family knows yours….and they knew he would be sleeping in the guest room and knew, and trusted your parents to keep things proper….it may be a go….but It really is not setting a good new family rule in the house for the future….might sound cute now but some day you may ask with confiedence to have your 15 year old boyfriend spending the nite with approval from your Dad……..most people meaning parents would say NO!!! That is not too cute with proper parents.