I think my boyfriend likes someone else. What should I do?

We’ve been breaking up and getting back together A LOT in the past three months but recently I noticed something. When we last broke up he started hanging out ONLY with this one girl. She likes him and he knows that. He says they’re just friends and stuff but it doesn’t look like that. Yesterday we got back together again…He hung out with her again. Oh and while we were hugging in the school hallway(we go to the same school and they’re in the same class) they were looking at each other and I just felt so…out of place.

Answer #1

First off, I’m sorry with the way your bf is treating you. It appears as you list all the qualities that a lover is not suppose to have. A healthy relationship is suppose to be based on security and honesty, which in your situation, you seem to be lacking. When you break up with someone and get back together - you’d expect the person to change their behaviour if they truly love you, but if they leave you feeling “out of place” that’s when you know that your relationship is not long in place or that he’s no longer in love. Imagine the image he sets on you when other people in school see him fooling around with another girl and acts more than just friendly with her. If the girl likes him, and he keeps giving her attention, he’s just leading her on - which is a horrid thing to do, for her and for you to watch.

And this is where you need to draw the line hun and tell him that you no longer want to be in a relationship with him if he’s not going to show a change of heart and respect your feelings.

Answer #2

If you’re breaking up and getting back together, he probably just thinks he can do whatever he wants because you’ll just take him back anyway. He is obviously interested in that other girl. Ditch this guy, he isn’t worth the drama.

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