How to make anal sex hurt less?

You HAVE to be relaxed! First and formost. Have him go downtown first to relax you. Use a good amount of lub. Not too much, especially if you’re tense. It will be slippping around everywhere and he’ll never be able to get it in! One of the pros of anal is that you (the girl) are in control, or at least you should be! Make him start nice and slow. Put a little bit in and then ease it out. Then alittle more in and back out until you’ve got it I the way. After that you should be relaxed enough to go alittle faster. He has to understand that you’re in control or it’s going to hurt you and no anal for anyone!

darling darling darling. don’t have anl. there is a very good reason it hurt. you should not do it! this is quite disgusting, but so is anl: your body is not made to be used that way, and is quite likely to be injured, and then you will not be able to control your bowel movements anymore. lovely fun, correct? I know I would enjoy spending the majority of my life in adult diapers. so yes, quite disgusting, quite horrible, but quite the truth.

a lot of lube helps, I did with ym boyfriend and it hurt sooo bad , so we have anal and intrcrse

All of the above pretty much nail it. Except for one thing. Your position ( the woman ) the easiest way to do it the first time is in doggy style, however, instead of arching your back down like normal, arch it so there is a slight hump in your back. At that point, he should have done enough to get you fairly turned on. If your the type that gets really wet, this will help. He should use your own juices to lube you up. Now, have him position himself behind, you, and place the head of his manhood up against what I like to call the button knot. At that point, you are the one who should do ALL the pushing, he should generally stay still and not move around to much. Once, your able to take him fully inside of you, then he can start moving SLOWLY in and out frequently playing with your clit, and other parts around the area to try and keep your wet constantly. This is important. The more stimulated you are for a longer period of time, helps a great deal. Good luck.. Oh and make sure if he does anal on you that no matter what, if he wants to go inside the other hole to either wash himself first, or put on a condom. Or use a condom while doing anal, then take it off before going into the other hole.. If you don’t, then it will cause a urinary infection most likely. Keep it safe but fun. :D

use lubricant and tell him to finger you anal first, for a wile. I tried it with my girlfriend just like that and she cried I had to stop.

push against his penis while he’s entering like you’re taking a dump, that helps.

and while doggystyle (your butt in the air) is akward looking, it helps with comfort.