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Am I a loser?
Im overweight, not athletic, dont play sports, I have basicly 2 good friends, I play video games in my freetime (I have a lot of freetime), I always feel left out and lonely at school, and girls never to rarely talk to me and when they do it never lasts more than a minute. How much of a loser am I?
I was a social pariah in high school. Even most of the unpopular kids wouldn’t hang with me. I didn’t have much in the way of social skills. I used to say that the only reason I ever opened my mouth was to change feet.
Some people are just late bloomers. In high school everyone thought I was weird but in college a lot of people liked my individuality and thought me interesting. When I started working I developed some of the social skills that were lacking before.
Not being popular in high school is not the end of the world, most of your life ahead of you and in a few years high school will be just a memory. Looking back a lot of the popular kids I went to high school with did not do so well after school. Many of them are on their 3rd marriage, in poor health, un- or under-employed, etc. It was like the peaked in high school and it was all downhill from there.
Just hang in there!
When I was at high school I was not exactly popular either but have since learnt. Get a decent part time job. Instead of playing video games all you free time, go and get some job applications, fill em out and hand em in. You will at least meet other peole there and you will be (somewhat) socialising. If and when you get a girlfriend you at least have some $$$ Personally I am mad about motorcycles and found that if a girl liked me they really really liked me after I gave em a ride on one of my bikes but maybe thats just me. Find an interest than isnt video games and take it to the top (e.g. I am doing racing) that should help not only socialising but also motivation, making friends etc. Make very small goals (first should be that tomorrow you go and get 3 job application forms from wherever and fill them in, next day is your next goal, send them back and get 3 more applications)etc. A job ias probably your first step.
You’re not a loser! Just try to talk to them more and make more friends. You can try sports, you might make friends there, too. Do you have any animals? If you do, you can play with them in your free time.
you are not a loser at all…I think you should use your time correctly…as yu said yu have lots of free time…so yu should do exercise or yu could run or do jogging…try to make your self fit..try to work out daily..when ever your free..dunn just waste your time playin games..u wont get anythin from that..I suggest to work on your self…and show that girls that your somethin…
Check out your BMI at the bmi calculator site below to see where you stand. bmi calculator:
http://www.bmi-calculator.net/
If you need conversion info, 1 kg = 2.2 pounds and 2.54 cm = 1 inch (12 inches = 1 foot)
Info if you are trying to GAIN weight:
http://www.bmi-calculator.net/treatment/underweight-treatment.php
Info if you are trying to LOSE weight:
http://www.bmi-calculator.net/treatment/overweight-treatment.php
“How can I Lose 1 pound of body weight per week?” One pound of body fat is equal to about 3500 calories. So to lose 1 pound of weight per week, you need to eat 500 calories/day LESS than you burn.
But it’s not a good idea to lose weight simply by cutting calories. As well as decreasing calories you should increase your daily physical exercise. This helps to burn calories and build more lean tissue which in turn burns more calories.
“What should a minimum calorie intake be?”
As a guide to minimum calorie intake, the American College of Sports Medicine (ACSM) recommends that calorie levels never drop below 1200 calories per day for women or 1800 calories per day for men. Even these calorie levels are quite low.
Average Teenager Weight
http://lifestyle.iloveindia.com/lounge/average-teenager-weight-236.html
Stop feeling negative about yourself. You can start being positive and enjoying your life. It’s up to YOU. Start by setting some goals for yourself. Set goals for a week; a month; 3 months; 6 months and a year. As you start attaining your goals you will become more self-confident and will start enjoying life more.
Think Positive, Be Positive and Do Positive.
no you are not. :)
Your my twin XD
Alright you could try for a sport and just work out to gain muscle or lose weight In your spare time try just going out side and just wander around and just go for a walk I know it seems hard but you got to do it!
When you are bored don’t eat! Only eat when you are hungry. Try eating when you hear your tummy is rumbling that is when you will know! :D
If you like games you should get DDR (Dance dance revolution) My cousin lost weight playing that game and it’s just simply amazing fun game!
Hope this helps!
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