I love her!

okay my girlfriend of 8 months (who I love more than anything in the world) has been kinda in this relationship with this guy who she has never met before. shes been txtin him for about 3 months now, and hes coming up this summer. she said that for now she will be with me, but when he comes up she doesnt know what will happen. I made her promise to me that before she even kissed him, she would break up with me first. shes never seen him in real life. but they sent pictures so they know what each other look like (or they think) I cant break up with her, but what should I do?

Answer #1

whoa! whoa!! WHOA!! wtf is this? so you’re still with your girl, as she’s fooling and flirting with this guy (that she’s never met) - you know everything about it (so it’s nothing behide your back) - and yet you’re OKAY with it? - because you’re still with her!! doode??? how’d this come to be? why’d you let her have a relationship with some stranger? if you truly love her you should tell her to cut this relationship with this stranger, NOW!! - because you never know, if he’s actually around her age or NOT!! what’s going on through her head honestly??? - you’ve heared of all the twisted stories on cyber bullying and stuff - this situation isn’t that different!! you need to straighten things out with your girl - one: see if she still truly loves you and two: dose she really wanna meet this stranger!!

doode, you NEED to PROTECT her!! - if you do truly love her!!! honestly tell her you love and care for her, and want her for YOURSELF!! and if she dosen’t agree than she isn’t worth it!! but if you care about her, tell her you care about her safety and you really don’t want her meeting this stranger!!

Answer #2

mannn thats messed up. you seem like a gorgeous guy and I don’t know what her problem is. its probably safest to leave her to sve some of the pain if she leaves you for another guy. maybe just hang out there and see how things go. but girl that is not right

Answer #3

awwwe im so sorry :( she sounds like she is taking advantage of you and you sound like a sweetie so I think you deserve someone better I know you will ignore the last sentence cus my friends tell me that same thing about my boyfriend and its hard moving on from someone you really like

but ask her about what she thinks about your relationship and she really truely loves you cus if she does she wouldnt do this to you ,,but maybe just tell her how you feel you cant break up with her cus it seems impossible to do but you dont want her to cheat on you or you loose her to another guy … once again sorry if ya need to talk mail me(: im here for ya

Answer #4

I so know how you feel mannn

you love the chick/mann to death and you dont want to leave them my boyfriend made out with this chick like the first couple weeks we were going out and he never told me and I found out through my bfs best friend and I found out 3 months after it happendd it was messed up but once we started talking I realized it was a mess up and people deserve a second chance but I don’t know

I still dont think she deserves you your a total sweet heart

Answer #5

Well, if you really love her you should wait until he comes. There is still like 4 months until summer so you should enjoy her until the time comes. Who knows, she may not even like him. I know you dont want to break up with her, but how could you deal with her when she does this to you. This may sound a tiny bit harsh, but it sounds like she doesnt love you back and could care less about her status with you, considering she has the internet werido she met.

Answer #6

MAN… You need to leave her… She going to leave you for a guy that she hasnt met and doesnt know. I say be friend and be there when she meets this guy JUST FOR STAFETY!!!

I know you love her but what she doing to you isnt LOVE!! you can get better and find better that will love you and SHOW you love!!

Answer #7

honestly, break up with her. I know that you dont want to, but if she has feelings for this guy then she is kinda leaving you out. Its not right for her to do this and you need to stop it. tell her its either me or him.. I think this situation is wrong and you should walk away, there is someone else out there for you who will make you first and not even consider talking to another guy like you girlfriend is doing now.

Answer #8

Leave her! I know its hard but basically shes saying shes with you until she can have him. Thats so wrong. I know this hurts, but if she realy loved you she wouldnt even think about being with another guy

Answer #9

I know for a fact that she loves me. she hasnt ever met him before in real life. I just would like to emphasis those points. I can no longer even sense beauty in other girls. she is the only thing on my mind from the time I fall alseep, through all my dreams, and during the day. she started crying when I told her that she has to leave me before she even kisses him. I know she loves me.

Answer #10

Hey im sorry man but breakin up wit her was for the best!!! ull see…either way it goes at least it cant get any worse when elly broke up wit me she came right back cause she realized she didnt want to lose me…hopefully taylyn will do da same thing??? but ya gud luk man

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