Why would someone who likes you not want to hang out?

Well, this has happend to me with two different girls this ‘06-07 schoolyear, and I’d like to get some opinions…around the beginning of the schoolyear, there was this girl who I knew liked me, but we weren’t going out or anything. Then finally, she came out and said she wanted to go out with me, and I said I wanted to do the same, and so we started going out…however, in the entire time we dated (which was about a month and a half) I saw the chick TWICE, that’s right, TWICE…SHE was the one who actually wanted to go out, but then only wanted to actually HANGOUT twice…hmmm, doesn’t make much sense does it?

And now there’s ANOTHER chick I’ve been talkin to a lot recently, for about two months or so, who goes to my school…I like her a lot and she likes me and all, but I can never seem to actually get her to hangout…like whenever we’re supposed to FINALLY hang out, it somehow gets f*cked up, and it seems like she just doesn’t care, and then she gets surprised when I get pissed off…

Bottom line..it makes no sense at all for the girls who like you to not wanna actually HANG OUT with you, am I right? Especially the girl I actually dated, that just made no sense at all, for her to wanna go out with me but then only made the effort to see me like twice, that’s just f*cking dumb…just wanna get some opinions, and see who else agrees with me, since I think I’m pretty much 100% right.

Answer #1

There could be many possibilities for her behavious:One possibility is that maybe she is just recently getting out of another relationship and she isn’t ready to start another.She may still have feelings for this other guy,and she maybe though that getting together with YOU would ease her lonlieness and forget and move on .Another possibility:Maybe she is crushing on ANOTHER guy who isnt interested in her.Maybe she is using YOU to get over the guy she cannot have. It’s difficult to say,I think you should do some investigating on your part and see what is really up.Maybe both of these situations do not apply here however maybe these girls are not looking for a steady boyfriend.Maybe they are not ready to commit to one person,maybe they want to keep their options open.

Answer #2

dude #1: the reply depends on what you 2 did during the 2 times you hung out…if you guys totally went out and hooked up with fingering/feeling up/handjobs or maybe even oral…then the girl isnt admitting that she just wants a cute FWD or a personal f*ck-buddy….

#2: its kind of weird that her plans are the ones that intervene, yet she is getting pissed…if she doesnt care that you guys cant hang out like you want to, then she probably isnt that much worth it…basically, shes the kind a girl that would be the gf that wants you with her whenever you wanna hang with your friends, yet when her friends ask to go to the mall, she’ll ditch you. fun? no. peace bro- TMK

Answer #3

hey you never no she may have really loved you but was to scared to go nywere with u coz she thought u may of not liked her wen you got to no her better!

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