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Hello To You, Thank you for reading this. Any advise provided is greatly appreciated...
bit of advice if possible... Here’s the story, I shall try to keep it short, only reply when/if you have time:
I have had this crush on this girl since we were kids. We grew up together etc. Everyone use to know I always had a crush on her and I thought she was the bee’s knees etc(still do). We have had a good friendship with each other for quite sometime now. Anyhow, we grew up and now hitting the clubs. I went out with her the other weekend; she said "going to come back to mine to keep me warm?" I said "yes" quite calmly and laid back. (Whilst in my head I was like Wo0H0o)
Anyhow, the night ended and we went back to hers and 'kept her warm' for a while. Whilst in bed keeping her warm, she was sending mixed messages so was unsure how I would proceed. I cuddled her close for a while and started breathing on her neck (mmm!) Had to ask "if I was annoying her or keeping her up" She said "no" (that was probably some sort of wuss question right?) Basically, by her saying no it was go for me to proceed. Which I did... everything was awesome! At one stage I was going to say I love her... It just seemed right at the time..but I didn't because I didn't want to scare her.
It has been a couple of days now. Now I cannot get her out of my head. I need to kiss her again! She is awesome! Her name is going through my head constantly. I do not want to tell her because I do not want to sound 'full on'. As they say humans run away from what’s in pursuit of them naturally...(?)
What do I do? Lay low a few more days? Do I persist?
I would really love to have another awesome night with her again butut unsure how to approach it. I asked if she wanted to go out for a bite to eat this week. She replied back "Maybe, we will see."
What sort of answer is that? Does she want me to work harder for her?
I don't know what to do because I really do not want to scare her away or anything. Any suggestions, info, advise is greatly appreciated!
AHHH, I am addicted and I cannot get the potion to sooth my cravings. I want her!
Sorry about that... anyhow. Anythign provided is greatly appreciated.
Thank you!
Wow, you two really do have a special bond! She was a good friend of yours from a young age and you two have grown up together and i gather you both have probably been through alot together. But this "crush" is in fact love. You have fallen for your best girl mate. Clearly if she asked you if you want to come back and "keep her warm" she was interested in you otherwise if she wanted it to stay as friends, she would either said thanks for a brill night or come back for a cuppa?? But no! She went all kinky and asked you that. The reason she said maybe for the bite to eat is because she wants to keep you on your toes, teasing you! She is one mean keen girl. She likes you! But go slow! You don't wanna ruin a lifetime friendship over s*x or love. Tell her on a quiet evening... not in bed or a club, at her or your house for a meal or a drink. Tell her you like her alot and always have done since you were little. And you would be so happy if something came of it. You never know she may say something similar. Good Luck
i say you pursue this woman, why not? you seem to have past history of een going to school together. i wouldnt necessarily jump on the wagon and say i love you right away but say im really starting to like you more and more. and i think shell be more informed if you were to say i love you.
